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Peko
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05 Dec 2009, 10:58 pm

Look at my new profile pic (that's me behind the puppy) :)

p.s. Usually I have my hair down (just below shoulders & wavy/crazy + sunglasses most of the time). Don't think I have any outstandingly pretty, sexy or cute features that would be getting me the comments. Plus I've done some research on which female figure men tend to find attractive & mines not it (tiny boobs w/ hips = no from most online sources)


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06 Dec 2009, 8:28 am

Oh man I hate compliments, they make me feel uncomfortable and I dunno what to do. I've only recently started saying thanks and even then it's barely a noise, I just go "yeah tha" and I never finish it and look like bashful off snow white.


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06 Dec 2009, 9:24 pm

yeah it makes me uncomfortable too. especially because when people pay you compliments it means they've been observing and paying close attention to you, which is pretty scary for me. i get uncomfortable even when my mum looks at me, and we're quite close. i agree that saying thanks is best, or just a smile if you can't manage the words.