Laz wrote:
I have recently encountered an incident which has actually disgusted me to the point that I have contemplated just what kind of morals and values does the average person actually have in the society I live in?
It depends on different factors, but it seems like most people would be willing to commit any immoral and/or criminal act if it helped them out one way or another and they wouldn't get caught..... whether it's stealing or rape and murder. This seems to be especially true for people of lower intelligence, as people of higher intelligence seem to have more rationalisations in place that prevent them from acting on whatever fantasies they may have (eg. religious or political views).
This is what makes eg. a show like NBC's "To Catch A Predator" a perversion by itself (it's been widely criticised for its methods). There are serious indications that many if not all of the supposed predators were entrapped by the person in question pretending to be a 13- or 14-year-old in the sense that these supposed 13- or 14-year-olds probably instigated sexual conversation and made a lot of efforts to actually meet the supposed predators, leaving these men to believe that some underage person desired to have sex with them. Now you can say what you want, but I doubt many single male adults would dismiss such an offer even if it had never entered their minds before, especially if they do not have the necessary intelligence to rationalise the offer and ignore it. Especially when a crime appears victimless, only few people will still see it as a crime and even fewer will see it as something immoral.
Laz wrote:
And do I somehow have either higher values or are my values simply idealistic and rather disjointed with the actual reality of human beings and their behaviour.
I then wonder whether the values I expect of myself and others are wrong and that I perhaps need to realise that most people are motivated in life by more fundamentally basic drives, be that sexual, materialistic or power over others.
There's no reason to lower your standards because mainstream society no longer seems to have any. Can you honestly ignore what you believe to be true and still be true to yourself as an indivual? Can you sleep well at night with the idea that you're doing on immoral act after the other?
Certainly, some moral standards are subjective but some values like "you shall not steal" and "you shall not murder" seem universal in every culture and make perfect sense from any religion or ideology, so it's not because some people ignore them that you should as well. If you're intelligent enough to put yourself beyond an easily life of fulfilling your own desires at the expense of others, then please do so. You will do the world as well as yourself a favor because in the end a moral way at least makes you sleep better at night...