I lost a friend today :(

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Aaron~I've had this happen to me alot and I wish I could say something that would make all the pain go away but the fact is I can't.None of us can.I won't lie to you and say it doesn't hurt because it does!All I can do is give something to ask yourself.After all is said and done will you pick yourself up and take control of events before they control you?

Aaron, at least your ex-friend had the courage to tell you these things in your face, in person, while in my case a 'friend' did it by e-mail.
She wrote she has not strength to explain to me llike to a small child how interhuman coexistence functions or does not function

I've never had to break up a friendship, for in the very rare instances I do make friends offline, I end getting with resonable, nice people.

i have had many freinds over the years do that. all through my esarlier childhoos i had freinds forever conning me.

it hurts alot, but remeber that you best freinds will come in time when you find you click.

jammie

It's good to let go of people who treat you badly. You can then make yourself available to more meaningful relationships. I find it's best to get to know someone over a period of years and test if they are genuine or not. When I give my trust too fast, I am always dissapointed.