Sexual life with AS

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Yup. Why would we crave something we never had? It's silly.

Ignorance is bliss I guess. Either you go without craving it, which is great. Or you eventually do and you love it. You win either way.

Unless I get pregnant, then I'm totally screwed. D:

I have a lot of bottled up sexual tension and I would LOVE to have sex to release it.

you're preaching to the choir. in a more perfect world...

What do you mean? It's programmed into our neurology to feel attraction. Teenagers start feeling urges even if they've never-


... why the hell am I bothering to explain it to you...

I'm a virgin and I certainly crave sex - not all the time and certainly not as much as a man but I wouldn't be content never having sex either.

I would consider this an obsession of mine. it goes beyond the physical interaction though. I like reading about it, fantasising about it, learning new things that involve it, watching it out of interest in most cases. I dont know but Ive been into it since I was 4, again this goes beyond the physical part of it.(not that I dont enjoy it) To me I view it almost as an art. I dont know if thats a great explanation but thats the best I can do.

Wrong.

I guess I WAS mistaken I apologize. I just seemed like that.



Ditto on that.

My sex life ain't the greatest. I do have fairly high expectations though. I don't flirt or put up with stupid girls so I've f****d up my chances of getting some easy ass about 60% of the time in the bedroom alone. If I were to go out more, tolerate stupid women and what not I'd have probably been with 15-20 girls by now.

I've always been VERY sexual even at an early age. I never went through the "girls are gross" phase, I always wanted to be around them, was always judging how they looked, wanting to see more and stuff.

I hate to sound like a broken record but also ditto on that.

Well, I guess they forgot to program that part into me. I don't feel anything unless I'm already in a relationship with someone. Also, if you didn't want to bother explaining it to me, wouldn't you have just deleted your post? There's no need to be condescending. :/

poppyfields - Sure, I'd want to have sex someday but it would have to be with someone I really cared about. Otherwise, it's just meaningless sex. I want it to be more than that.

I'm not really missing out on much.

Part of me can get really sexually charged, while then there is another part of me who thinks sex is overrated and icky and gross... I am boy crazy, but I don't know, I guess I would feel more comfortable having sex with someone I trust and I just don't think I can take my clothes of or show my private parts to somebody other than a doctor and even then... In locker rooms, I tend to dress in the handicap stall.

Even though I'm a girl, it feels like my brain is wired like a guy's in that aspect... I'm more "visual" than most girls and my eye's will totally gobble up a boy's physical appearance, especially if they have nice shoulders and are well toned. but touch... eh, no, not for me.... Then there is anime guys. I totally gawk over anime guys. Even though they aren't real... well... I don't know... it's like I know I can never have them which makes them elusive and for some reason, I sort of like that aspect... Just knowing it will never happen...

I have aspergers but I'm fine sexually. It did take me a while, though.