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18 Jan 2016, 7:15 pm

who cares. its not like you have to be part of a sanctum that you belong even when it doesnt really relate to anything.


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19 Jan 2016, 9:41 am

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I had the same problem. I had my first boyfriend at 17 when all my siblings started at 13. And my first sexual relationship was at 23, with the man I married. People always want yo force you to do things, being having a boyfriend, having sex, trying drugs. I learned to walk away from that people, ignoring them or just switching the subject abruptly. That last skill is wonderful for working with small children throwing tantrums.


If my little brother thinks he's ready for a relationship at the age of 13 he's got another thing coming. Both I and my mother will kick his sorry ass until he stops worrying about girls and starts worrying about his studies.



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19 Jan 2016, 2:29 pm

And when will you let him?


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19 Jan 2016, 4:52 pm

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And when will you let him?


You referring to my comment? If so he can start thinking about relationships. Young teenagers have far better things to do with their time than go chasing around partners. Way too many hormones and not enough maturity to deal with that stuff in high school.



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20 Jan 2016, 3:34 am

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I would just not divulge that kind of personal information. Your sex life is your business.


What do you do about someone persistently interrogating you about your sex life, and who will not give up? Not saying this is happening to me (because it isn't) but I would wonder how to deal if this ever happened to me.


You act like they're some kind of freak for violating basic social taboos!

In some cases you can get them in trouble for sexual harassment.

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If my little brother thinks he's ready for a relationship at the age of 13 he's got another thing coming. Both I and my mother will kick his sorry ass until he stops worrying about girls and starts worrying about his studies.

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You referring to my comment? If so he can start thinking about relationships. Young teenagers have far better things to do with their time than go chasing around partners. Way too many hormones and not enough maturity to deal with that stuff in high school.


Ugh, there is pretty much nothing more worthless than high school. You and your mother should kick his sorry as until he stops worrying about his so-called studies and does just about anything else with his life.

I'm all for youth abstinence (although... having way too many hormones to deal with sexual relationships makes about as much sense as being way too hungry to eat), but the fact that it interferes with high school is never a good reason to avoid doing anything.


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