1000Knives wrote:
I'd say overall you're like, right. It's more that women societally for a long time were expected to be quiet and reserved, so there's that. But I think it's more that women usually have much more issues with anxiety and whatnot compared to males, and it's more OK for them societally, as in, they're "allowed" to. Males on the other hand, are expected to be strong and outgoing, and usually those traits come with being outgoing enough to be friendly with random strangers on the street.
To add, too, men overall have much less to fear in public. The obvious example is rape, but not even rape itself is what I'm talking about, women just get victimized a bit easier. One example would be, just meeting a guy who wants to have a romantic relationship with you, and he like, beats you or something. Stuff like that. Obviously, we don't have it perfect and wonderful as guys, and we'll meet crazy women, I mean it's another can of worms entirely being a guy, but that's my point. Women too, even just for nonsexual crimes, like robbery, are weaker to defend themselves. A muscular guy with good posture and a "don't f**k with me" look on his face has a significantly less chance of getting robbed compared to a like 5'2 woman that weighs like 100 pounds. And going further with that, robbery is an extreme example, but even just in a store setting. Like buying a car. You get treated entirely different as a woman, and most dealers take advantage of the inherent (I don't mean to offend, but it's true, women are physically weaker than men, I mean there's obviously strong women, but I digress) weakness of women, and this'll happen across the board in business deals. So again, to put it shortly, women generally have to be more defensive ALL the time.
This is the general perception so it likely influences peoples behavior in the way you suggested, however men are actually
more likely to be the victims of violent crime.
US statsUK statsEither way, it hasn't been my experience that men are friendlier. While men may be more likely to say "hi," I've found that, if I'm the one initiating some sort of contact, women are more likely to stop what they're doing and have a conversation.
In the country that I'm currently living in, men are the victims of roughly 80% of violent crimes, yet the 8 - 9% of violent attacks that are rape gets media attention, extra money for self defense classes for women and so on. I suppose it comes down to the fact that women are somewhat on a pedestal in that regard. It's interesting how such things are never taken into account in discussions on feminism to be honest.