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16 Nov 2006, 9:10 pm

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If you think about it, all online relationships are is last ditch efforts to find somebody. They will rarely, if ever stay true as a true friend in real life would.

Nowadays, a lot of people looking for significant others meet online, so I wouldn't quite say that online relationships are last-ditch efforts to find people. But as I said before, the online relationship (romantic and platonic) won't get very far if it stays online; there's so much about the other person that you don't really understand, that only a face-to-face interaction is going to give. So the only way to make the online relationship survive is to convert it into a real-life relationship, but that most of the time the sheer physical distance precludes the two of you from interacting face-to-face all the time, and hence you're relegated to interacting online.

I met my good friend online, and I was fortunate enough to be able to meet him face-to-face. And we're even on different continents! Unfortunately, our own AS communication problems (this was an AS-AS relationship) have almost completely destroyed the friendship. At least we met in real life, and we had a considerably better understanding of each other.



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16 Nov 2006, 10:58 pm

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Oh, and just out of curiosity, how old are you and why did you drop out of school at the expense of your education?

I'm 15. I didn't drop out of school, mum took me out...



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17 Nov 2006, 10:07 am

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Oh, and just out of curiosity, how old are you and why did you drop out of school at the expense of your education?

I'm 15. I didn't drop out of school, mum took me out...


Are you being homeschooled now, or has your mom completely given up on giving you an education? :?:



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17 Nov 2006, 11:06 am

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I tend not to make friends with people online if I can help it. I've met some quite deranged people through the Internet in the past.


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17 Nov 2006, 5:22 pm

I disagree with bchris02. Online friendship isn't as good as real life friendship, but not everybody's going to abandon their online friends the second they get a social life of their own. I've had a few online friends who had a social life, they just kept it seperate from their online life.


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17 Nov 2006, 6:28 pm

Shwoo wrote:
I disagree with bchris02. Online friendship isn't as good as real life friendship, but not everybody's going to abandon their online friends the second they get a social life of their own. I've had a few online friends who had a social life, they just kept it seperate from their online life.


I agree that real friendship is better than online friendship because you never actually know the person until you meet him/her face to face. People who waste their lives away on the internet trying to make friends need to stop being losers and actually get into the real world and make friends away from the computer. I know that most people here are absolutely dependent upon WP for friendships, and I think that's really sad. To those of you who are completely dependent on WP for friendships, I encourage you to get help, and learn some social skills, so you can experience friendship at its best. :)



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17 Nov 2006, 7:16 pm

Online friendship was all I had for a long time, and I have two very close friends that I wouldn't have made had it not been for the internet (and who I've met in person, as well).

I also have managed to get out and talk to people in real life, so I think I can truly say that I've experienced the best of both worlds in that regard.


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17 Nov 2006, 7:30 pm

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Are you being homeschooled now, or has your mom completely given up on giving you an education? :?:

I do this thing called Open Access...



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17 Nov 2006, 7:38 pm

Prof_Pretorius wrote:
Tequila wrote:
I tend not to make friends with people online if I can help it. I've met some quite deranged people through the Internet in the past.


Welllllll Excuuuuuuuusssee Meeeeeeee ! !! !


I don't know if you're deranged. Do you go out, randomly choose women, brutally murder them and dot their corpses around the house as mannequins? ;)

Not that I've ever met anyone who's actually admitted to doing that, of course... 8O



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17 Nov 2006, 7:46 pm

Mhm... There HAS to be a way to make friends...



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17 Nov 2006, 11:08 pm

RedMage wrote:
Mhm... There HAS to be a way to make friends...


I think you need social skills training, and maturity because most normal 15 year old girls don't play with bionicles.



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18 Nov 2006, 12:00 am

That's the thing, I'm different from 'normal' 15 year old girls. :(



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18 Nov 2006, 2:40 am

Is it just me, or is the way Kahadhea phrases questions and words things come off as really rude and aggressive? I think you could do with learning some social skills too.



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18 Nov 2006, 6:15 am

Know how you feel. :wink:

I'm a friend to all (I think) but have no true friends. Only 1, but we are loosely in touch. And at this moment in time, I don't really want to learn social skills as I prefer to be on my own.



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18 Nov 2006, 8:09 am

Mitch8817 wrote:
Is it just me, or is the way Kahadhea phrases questions and words things come off as really rude and aggressive? I think you could do with learning some social skills too.


Sorry. :roll: I apologize if that came off as rude and agressive, that was not my intent.



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18 Nov 2006, 9:46 am

well, what do ou know! i am pretty much friendless too, and i still go to school! send me a pm! i have one friend and he is sort of secretive about our friendship, almost everyone else that he consideres his friends are jerks towards me, just like everyone at school! (pretty much everyone anyway)


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