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26 Jan 2013, 3:02 pm

Once. When I texted some girl on Facebook....who requested random text and even gave out her number.



calico24
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26 Jan 2013, 3:24 pm

I have definite creeper tendencies, and I can totally relate to the long winded letters/texts ... like, I can just only communicate through writing, I am literally the worst at conversation, so when I try to explain myself through a letter it ends up being soooooo TL;DR because I'm overcompensating so hard. I'm actually struggling with this right now, I had a falling out with an internet friend, and I know it's over and I screwed up for good, but I really want to write her a letter just explaining that my Aspie tendencies caused the problems, that I understand and accept she doesn't want to be my friend anymore, and that there are no hard feelings but I think she's great and will remember her fondly. Only I can't decide if that's total f'ing creeper behavior ... thoughts?



KingKoolXD001
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27 Jan 2013, 12:32 am

rabidmonkey4262 wrote:
KingKoolXD001 wrote:
Basically to try and fix these situations I write long apology letters and ridiculously long texts being way more open than I should, through this method I discover I go into " stalker mode" and it's very childish annoying and un attractive of me and has caused this girl to not want to talk to me when i act this way, Has this happened to anybody else? Would somebody perhaps know what I should do to fix this?
Sorry to be the one to tell you, but you already destroyed any chance you had. "Stalker mode" is very unattractive and there's no erasing that mistake. The best I can say is that you need to keep things casual. That means no unsolicited contact. Plus, you could find yourself in legal trouble if you keep obsessing.


Yeah I can see how it could be like that. I agree that I should take things casually I normally come on too strong for my own good. I'd like to be optimistic and believe that perhaps there still may be some chance, like I was never directly called a stalker or anything she just told me that I act like one at times and its kind of annoying. That however is much better, I just find it so difficult to talk to her or anyone I have feelings for and that's why I do these silly things and basically push them away.