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Summer_Twilight
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08 Jun 2013, 4:10 pm

Lol, she is very strange like that too. On one hand, she has an obsessive and clingy personality to call you non stop and whine about being lonely. Then she goes and makes excuses. She did not used to be like this.


Anyway: She is going to a vocational school about 2 hours south of the city and has made several new friends down there. What is funny is that I knew of another girl who went down there and she pretty much showed the same behavior that this current one showing. In fact, she came home and never seemed to have time for me and always made excuses about having to babysit her two sisters. Yet, she seemed to make little hints that she got together with her other friends. Both of these girls really have not told me what is wrong.

What do they teach down there anyway?



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08 Jun 2013, 8:57 pm

Summer_Twilight wrote:
Lol, she is very strange like that too. On one hand, she has an obsessive and clingy personality to call you non stop and whine about being lonely. Then she goes and makes excuses. She did not used to be like this.


Anyway: She is going to a vocational school about 2 hours south of the city and has made several new friends down there. What is funny is that I knew of another girl who went down there and she pretty much showed the same behavior that this current one showing. In fact, she came home and never seemed to have time for me and always made excuses about having to babysit her two sisters. Yet, she seemed to make little hints that she got together with her other friends. Both of these girls really have not told me what is wrong.

What do they teach down there anyway?


:lol: Maybe it's really a cult. In all seriousness though people have done this to me, made exuses not to see me anymore but kept seeing other friends/new friends. It's just a cowardly way of ending a relationship ( friendship) for any reason. People just make excuses and say they're busy and distance themselves from you. This way they don't actually have to tell you they don't want to see you. *Well, this has been the case from my experience anyway, it might not turn out that way.



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09 Jun 2013, 8:13 am

Lol, yeah really. The question is, what do they teach at that institute anyway? How to be a complete jerk who is now too import for your golden friends? I thought it was to be a more mature adult.

The first girl who went down seemed to turn into a phoney and stuck up individual after she met her friends and a low-life boyfriend while she was there. She would call me alright but seemed to use this high "Girlfriend what's up." Then he would interrupt our phone conversations by trying to talk to me. It was really annoying.

She also grew very mean towards others who went down there who appeared to have lower-functioning disabilities. According to a current friend of mine who attended with her, she yelled at people all the time. (Now he is really nice and accepting)

I don't know about the second girl's behavior. I just know what I have observed of her up here in Atlanta.