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leafplant
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02 Feb 2014, 3:35 am

AspieCurious wrote:

I know what you meant. Don't let yourself get trolled. We newbs gotta stick together.

I suspect a lot of these people only appear to have happy, exciting lives. Even assuming their lives seem better than yours, it's very possible they're purposely exaggerating their public appearance. People are so fake, it's disgusting. I'm a loner by choice because I can't stand most people. I get along with people just fine; I just don't want to have much do to with them! But it does get lonely.


It's pretty hurtful to be accused of trolling when I was just trying to be helpful AND when I've admitted to having the same problem with people.



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02 Feb 2014, 4:27 pm

leafplant wrote:
AspieCurious wrote:

I know what you meant. Don't let yourself get trolled. We newbs gotta stick together.

I suspect a lot of these people only appear to have happy, exciting lives. Even assuming their lives seem better than yours, it's very possible they're purposely exaggerating their public appearance. People are so fake, it's disgusting. I'm a loner by choice because I can't stand most people. I get along with people just fine; I just don't want to have much do to with them! But it does get lonely.


It's pretty hurtful to be accused of trolling when I was just trying to be helpful AND when I've admitted to having the same problem with people.


I don't think you were trolling, but I do think you may have aspergers. (Obviously you suspect as much too since you are on this forum). The point is, you were seemingly unable to read between the lines of what I wrote, which was me simply expressing that I wanted the sensation of being in demand, and being (socially) desired. Obviously what I was writing wasn't meant to be construed as me saying that I simply wanted to reject people to feel better about myself. If this was the meaning that I was truly trying to convey then of course I would expect to be reprimanded and talked down to, but since it wasn't even close to the meaning that I was conveying, I was understandably irritated at you trying to imply that my intentions were less than noble. That being said, I'm not mad at you or anything. In fact, I am trying to better understand you. Seriously, I have nothing against you...



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03 Feb 2014, 3:14 pm

The only people I see regularly are my parents [usually several times a week], a brother every few months and another brother 3-4 times a year. I have no friends and have a cat for companionship.

I have been more social in the past but have found my own company causes less stress, headaches, anxiety etc. etc.


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29 May 2014, 1:55 pm

leafplant you have big f*cking problems and you're very bad troll, who the h*ll wants to write that I have too many issues just because my father played a key role in me getting dumped by my girlfriend.