What are some silly reasons why someone disliked you?

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1. To add to the warehouse scenario, which was work supported, most of the co-workers there didn't like me and found every excuse.
- I talked too much
- I shaved my head
- I got into college and decided that I was going to one day outgrow the job coach (Which I finally did).
- I wore licensed tee-shirts
- I like anime
- I studied during my break time.
- My interests
- My Beliefs

2. I had a friend who I met at a sheltered workshop whose mother grew to despise me once she found out that I was able to go to college despite being in Special Ed next to being able to live on my own. Every time I interacted with her she had an attitude with me. She always tried to talk down to me. Why it was so bad that she didn't bother inviting me to my friend's 30th that she threw for her. This was even though she knew that I meant something to her child but she didn't care. My aunt had even taken them to Disney World two years in a row and everything.

3 I have family who dislike me just because I have autism thanks to silly stereotypes and many misunderstandings about Autism.

I liked Benny & Joon too much
Because I wear diapers and into AB/DL
Because they thought I was slow or ret*d
Because they thought I was dumb
I talked funny
Because they thought I was weird or a dork
I wore pants that were too short
I was clumsy so they thought I did it on purpose

- I talk to myself so that gives people the idea that I am "Crazy".

At secondary school this girl I knew didn't want to be friends with me because I didn't come from a big family (meaning I only had one sibling, while she had four), and so she only wanted to hang out with this other girl (we both knew her) who also had a lot of siblings.

But I knew that weren't the real reason, because they let this other girl who was an only child, into their group. So it's obviously something about my eccentric ways that made them want to exclude me, not because of how big my family was.

In school I often got excuses by my other peers in special ed who told me that one of their parents didn't invite me because my being hyper was too much in addition to their child's hyperactivity. I was also told that their parents didn't understand me.

That was a lie because

1. I was trying to fit in at the time and said inappropriate things which gave them the idea that I was a slut
2. The other kids were envious of me because I was so much smarter than they were.

this is apparently what some cousins think of me. exactly this.

i say i'm glad i get to see them once a year.

I should also add that these same kids in special ed didn't like me over the fact that I was the most outspoken one.

Finally, a childhood friend drop me because I talked about Disney, Disney and more Disney films. She also didn't like me because I was "Too Skinny."

What is AB/DL? And what's behind the diaper wearing, if you don't mind explaining?

I was going inquire this as well but than I realized I really didn't want an answer

League_Girl, what ever floats your boat

Happens to me all the time and a reason was never given. I spend all day thinking about why but the reality is, I really don't know. Maybe I remind them of some childhood trauma?

I find people in Austin to be extremely difficult to be friends with; they are often very superficial.

Even hanging out in "asperger's support group" or whatever they call it is of no help. I think some of them have far worse psychological conditions than just having asperger's... I've actually been ignored far more in those groups than by NT's. You'd think in a room full of aspies they'd understand right? Guess not.

They were insanely jealous of me.

"look at (blank) crashing into walls and tripping on air! doesn't (blank) get sick of throwing hirself onto furniture and dropping things? what nerve!"

i don't get how people believe one would be intentionally clumsy. not at all.

Would love it if someone actually told me the 'reason'....

They say they don't like you but who they really don't like is themselves because they are frustrated that you have something that they really want. It usually means they are insecure

AB/DL=adult baby/diaper lover

I didn't bump into walls fortunately, I would just bump into kids often and they would bump into me, I would accidentally kick other kids in the monkey bars and accidentally run into other kids and they would get mad at me. I would be trying to play on the bars and I would be trying to get on them and someone thought I was doing it to show off. I learned to walk looking on the ground because I would bump into little kids. My mom said I used to bump into anything in front of me because I would forget it was there. But occupational therapy fixed it so it doesn't happen often anymore and everyone does a clumsy moment sometimes so I don't pathologize mine. I used to drop things often until my early adulthood. Boy how many times my Nintendo DS, CD player, Game Boys have survived their falls and I only ended up with a broken battery cover for my GBA. My Nook has survived its fall too and my 3DS XL. I have also ended up with broken CD cases and wrecked one of my CDs because it got so badly scratched from too many falls I had to replace it. The songs would skip or speed up.

But kids are ignorant. Just because they don't do these often, they thought I was doing all this to be cool and to show off and to be mean when I would accidentally kick them or bump into them or have them bump into me. I hated crowds for a while because of this and always feel guilty for an accident because I thought someone was going to get mad at me. Now I think it's their problem if they want to get mad at me for an accident.