Can someone be too ugly/dumb to never get a friend?
slw1990 wrote:
white_as_snow wrote:
slw1990 wrote:
I don't think looks usually have much to do with being able to make friends. It has more to do with how well you are able to connect with others.
It does in my case, i am probaly one of the most ugly persons on earth, i am serious.
Being able to connect to others - you mean good social skills? I dont have that either.
Yes, that's what I mean. Maybe you could try making friends with other people similar to you? My social skills aren't very good either, but I have a few friends and a lot of them are in a similar situation.
I saw a picture that you posted in the Members Only Section. If that is a picture of you I don't think that you look ugly at all.
People who are similar to me? Probaly almost nobody is like me and where would i find this type of people and what makes you think that they would want to be my friend?
Ok perhaps you have bad social skills, but having extremely bad social skills like me is big difference from just having bad social skills like you have.
Of course that picture is me. You are just being nice saying i am not ugly, just compare my picture with the others in the thread, i am by far the most ugly one. I look even worse in real life, i cant even go out without people starring at me and laughing.
white_as_snow wrote:
slw1990 wrote:
white_as_snow wrote:
slw1990 wrote:
I don't think looks usually have much to do with being able to make friends. It has more to do with how well you are able to connect with others.
It does in my case, i am probaly one of the most ugly persons on earth, i am serious.
Being able to connect to others - you mean good social skills? I dont have that either.
Yes, that's what I mean. Maybe you could try making friends with other people similar to you? My social skills aren't very good either, but I have a few friends and a lot of them are in a similar situation.
People who are similar to me? Probaly almost nobody is like me and where would i find this type of people and what makes you think that they would want to be my friend?
You're on a forum for autistic people.
Similar to you.
racheypie666 wrote:
white_as_snow wrote:
slw1990 wrote:
white_as_snow wrote:
slw1990 wrote:
I don't think looks usually have much to do with being able to make friends. It has more to do with how well you are able to connect with others.
It does in my case, i am probaly one of the most ugly persons on earth, i am serious.
Being able to connect to others - you mean good social skills? I dont have that either.
Yes, that's what I mean. Maybe you could try making friends with other people similar to you? My social skills aren't very good either, but I have a few friends and a lot of them are in a similar situation.
People who are similar to me? Probaly almost nobody is like me and where would i find this type of people and what makes you think that they would want to be my friend?
You're on a forum for autistic people.
Similar to you.
yes, but who is like me with 100 flaws? i never heard of anybody having so much flaws. nobody on this forum ever talks to me, nobody cares about me.
We are talking to you right now, and we do care about you... Please... Just please... Please be happy. I understand that we do not understand your perspective, but we would like it if you would not worry about socializing, and instead worry about other things that truly matter. You do not have a 100 flaws at all. I do not even know how many flaws you have.
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