The feeling that people just don't like you for no reason

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Yes, but then again they've just given me a reason not to like them. And therefore are now in my way and I won't be catering to them. You don't have to care about those types of people's existence. They've just helped you get closer to who's worth your time. And a lot of people won't be worth your time.

I know I'm really annoying when I talk too much, so I usually tend to not talk at all...which certainly doesn't give people a reason to like me =)

I don't really socialise but when I go to the shops the cashiers can be kind of rude to me.

This thread reminds me of the song, Why's Everybody Always Pickin' On Me? by The Bloodhound Gang

I don't think my work colleagues like me. There is a reason though, that I'm learning. I make the "normals" uncomfortable.
I do this any time something I do is a little off of normal, when I don't use my face and body to express understanding to them sufficiently - so they feel comfortable. They can't get a read on me and seem to assume the worst. Rather than using actual words to check in with me - they give off weird normal vibes that I have trouble processing and reacting to in a way that pleases them. I'm unpredictable this way even though I feel I'm predictable.

It's really annoying to me.

Well I say a vast majority of people don't like me,which I already know why.It's simply becasue I'm different.

I always have that feeling, especially at school. You just start noticing how people seem to go out of their way not to talk to you or hang out with you, just all of your friends. I think I seem pretty normal, but I know that people can always tell something's off about me.

And these same precious lil people wonder why we don't bother accepting the few social invitations we get.....

I never even gotten any social invitations from anyone. Atleast that make it easier to assume that people simply don't like me.Personally I say screw NT people(non Autistic/AS) people.

Rick, any invitation I get is just when they want a high volume of people or it's a pity invitation. Neither serves my interest so that is why I generally pass.

Same here.

The faces they make when you on an invitation and try to convince you....

Nah, guys I'll pass as this holds no interest for me.

I'm not interested in being left by myself while everybody else is having a good time. If I want to be by myself, I will stay home instead.

Being left in a corner. I can do being alone without leaving the house.

I would like to stay in the house and never leave.The only thing that's keeping me from that is the fact that I have a high paying job.

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I find that when I'm feeling that way, a lot of times it's anxiety and paranoia, where I'm kind of looking for something to be stressed about. I find that generally, I'm a pretty bad mindreader.