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18 Jun 2018, 9:26 am

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Summer: you have a pretty good theory of mind, though you do not truly know what is going on in her head. The majority id still in your own mind. Do you feel that she was that insecure about you to think you were going to steal her man? She talk to you, though you are probably correct that dhe thought you worked there and was only humoring her. I had a situation where I went to one of daughters classmates birthday parties and ended up sneering at me, when I told him about the ability to buy a house he sneered 'good for you', probably because he could not get one himself and I telling him my good fortune made it obvious of his lack of it. But it f****d up my whole experience at that party. And was thinking about it days later. When I should have brushed it off. Your story feels like that.



I am over it now but the way she kept her eye on me while snuggling with her boyfriend gave me hints that "This is mine sweetheart." She also pushed my buttons when she made the comment about me "Working there." If you know anything about the cats, the snottier people at this location assume that you work there.



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02 Jul 2018, 10:40 pm

Condescending women trigger bad memories from childhood in me. Not just classmates, but also teachers and some relatives. I still have extreme fear of women in authority positions.
Aspie women aren't usually that way so I'd like to think I would get along better with them



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03 Jul 2018, 9:01 am

Summer, you are quite a neat person. I get a kick out of your posts. Those nasty women don't deserve you. Swim away from them and find a nicer place.



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04 Jul 2018, 6:22 pm

Summer_Twilight wrote:
Hi:
Everywhere I go, I keep noticing women who are
1. Very insecure and clingy to their significant others and rub it in your face that they have someone and you don't
2. They seem to enjoy undermining other women and especially if there is something off about you
3. The walk around acting like they are more important
4. They are condescending
5. They tend to keep their eye on other women and whisper right in front of you


That is all because, as you have already observed, they are insecure. Isn't it nice not to be them?



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05 Jul 2018, 12:49 pm

Chronos wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
Hi:
Everywhere I go, I keep noticing women who are
1. Very insecure and clingy to their significant others and rub it in your face that they have someone and you don't
2. They seem to enjoy undermining other women and especially if there is something off about you
3. The walk around acting like they are more important
4. They are condescending
5. They tend to keep their eye on other women and whisper right in front of you


That is all because, as you have already observed, they are insecure. Isn't it nice not to be them?


I would say so and the next time I run into a snob in the cat lounge then I will walk out and hang out in the coffee shop until they are gone.

Historygal, thank you because I run into more people like that all the time and I honestly find it annoying.



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05 Jul 2018, 1:29 pm

Summer_Twilight wrote:
Hi:
Everywhere I go, I keep noticing women who are
1. Very insecure and clingy to their significant others and rub it in your face that they have someone and you don't
2. They seem to enjoy undermining other women and especially if there is something off about you
3. The walk around acting like they are more important
4. They are condescending
5. They tend to keep their eye on other women and whisper right in front of you



I know its easier said than done but all you need to do is rise above it and try your best ignore it. Some people are out there just to cause trouble. When they realize they're having no effect on you, they will get bored. Like others have said, they sound like the insecure jealous ones.


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05 Jul 2018, 2:19 pm

Red89 wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
Hi:
Everywhere I go, I keep noticing women who are
1. Very insecure and clingy to their significant others and rub it in your face that they have someone and you don't
2. They seem to enjoy undermining other women and especially if there is something off about you
3. The walk around acting like they are more important
4. They are condescending
5. They tend to keep their eye on other women and whisper right in front of you



I know its easier said than done but all you need to do is rise above it and try your best ignore it. Some people are out there just to cause trouble. When they realize they're having no effect on you, they will get bored. Like others have said, they sound like the insecure jealous ones.



Last night I ran into some girls like that in the pool who were looking at me and I heard them calling me "Ugly" but I just ignored them and I didn't let it bother me. Then I realize that they me as a reflection of themselves so I just felt sorry for them. Soon after, they left the pool and left me with my friend.



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05 Jul 2018, 9:50 pm

Summer_Twilight wrote:
Chronos wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
Hi:
Everywhere I go, I keep noticing women who are
1. Very insecure and clingy to their significant others and rub it in your face that they have someone and you don't
2. They seem to enjoy undermining other women and especially if there is something off about you
3. The walk around acting like they are more important
4. They are condescending
5. They tend to keep their eye on other women and whisper right in front of you


That is all because, as you have already observed, they are insecure. Isn't it nice not to be them?


I would say so and the next time I run into a snob in the cat lounge then I will walk out and hang out in the coffee shop until they are gone.

Historygal, thank you because I run into more people like that all the time and I honestly find it annoying.


I would just ignore them and continue being your happy self.