08 Oct 2018, 11:38 am
lostonearth35 wrote:
Usually for pedophile it's guys who hang around children a lot and act creepy or unusually fond of kids.
Of course, people seem to use the word very broadly for any guy who looks or acts creepy. And women can be pedophiles too, but other people seem to be in total denial of this unless the woman is old or ugly. Talk about stupid.
Of course, people seem to use the word very broadly for any guy who looks or acts creepy. And women can be pedophiles too, but other people seem to be in total denial of this unless the woman is old or ugly. Talk about stupid.
Yea! How about these gorgeous, blonde, school teachers having sexual relationships with 14 year old boys? It got to a point to where this stand-up comedian said, "Where the hell were these woman when I was in high school!".
08 Oct 2018, 11:46 am
TW1ZTY wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:
you got called a pedophile, didn't you.
Yes, and I can promise you I am not a pedophile. I have no desire to have sex with children. But a couple of people have accused me before with absolutely no proof other than the fact that I "seem weird". Do you really think it is fair to do that to people just for that reason?
I know where you coming from! I used to work in a hoagie shop when I was in college studying to be an RN. The owner's 12 year old son decided to chat with me. I patiently listened and gave him attention that I guessed he wanted. His father accused me of being a pedophile. I spoke to this kid solely because he was the owner's son. If it were a different kid, I would have said, "Sorry, but I have tables to clean and work to do. Have a nice day. The last person in the world I felt like conversing with was a little boy." I chose to work there in the first place to meet the college guys. I quit the job after that day. To this day, I'd like to punch the owner in the face. Today, I see through this - the owner had an agenda for me - a sexual one. That's what that comment was all about. Creeps are very slick.
He said that to me because it was he who wanted a piece of my young ass - that dirty old bastard!! I was 18.
08 Oct 2018, 11:55 am
08 Oct 2018, 12:54 pm
RightGalaxy wrote:
TW1ZTY wrote:
Kiprobalhato wrote:
you got called a pedophile, didn't you.
Yes, and I can promise you I am not a pedophile. I have no desire to have sex with children. But a couple of people have accused me before with absolutely no proof other than the fact that I "seem weird". Do you really think it is fair to do that to people just for that reason?
I know where you coming from! I used to work in a hoagie shop when I was in college studying to be an RN. The owner's 12 year old son decided to chat with me. I patiently listened and gave him attention that I guessed he wanted. His father accused me of being a pedophile. I spoke to this kid solely because he was the owner's son. If it were a different kid, I would have said, "Sorry, but I have tables to clean and work to do. Have a nice day. The last person in the world I felt like conversing with was a little boy." I chose to work there in the first place to meet the college guys. I quit the job after that day. To this day, I'd like to punch the owner in the face. Today, I see through this - the owner had an agenda for me - a sexual one. That's what that comment was all about. Creeps are very slick.
He said that to me because it was he who wanted a piece of my young ass - that dirty old bastard!! I was 18.I was accused by a neighbor of ours whose daughter was a friend of my little sister (this was when I was about 15 and my sister was about 8 ) She told people around the neighborhood that she thought I was a pedophile simply because of the fact that whenever she and her daughter came over to our house I always stayed in my bedroom because I was antisocial (I have Aspergers so duhhhh). She thought that made me "weird" and that I was trying to hide something about myself.
So yeah apparently even ignoring children can get you labeled as a pedophile. Seriously I ****ing hate people like her.
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10 Oct 2018, 1:34 pm
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10 Oct 2018, 9:06 pm
Jamesy wrote:
My friends at the bar also label me as gay as well being a pedophile
Recently someone told me I was like a piece of the furniture at the bar I attend
Recently someone told me I was like a piece of the furniture at the bar I attend
I'd hardly call them friends. Go to a different bar or just stop going to bars. It's better to go to sports bars with a group of relatives or friends or a fancy wine bar
. Watch your alcohol intake!! It's not the best thing for your body.
10 Oct 2018, 10:15 pm
I don't drink but I wanna go to a piano bar and sing "Sing us a song you're the piano man!" 
11 Oct 2018, 3:23 am
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11 Oct 2018, 4:13 am
11 Oct 2018, 6:16 am
b9 wrote:
maybe in the USA, i would have been suspected and investigated. i am glad i do not live there.
Yeah it really does feel that way in the U.S. and it is like a real witch hunt. I've heard of male teachers who have had their careers ruined because of students who accused them of being pedophiles because they were mad at the teacher for giving them an F and then they laugh and joke about it with their friends.
Also if you are a grown man who has never been in a relationship (like me) people look at you suspiciously. Kind of like how during the Salem Witch Trials any woman who lived alone and was a spinster was looked at suspiciously and thought to be a witch.
And don't even get me started on the whole "gay agenda" thing. That is about as absurd as it gets.
11 Oct 2018, 8:00 am
11 Oct 2018, 8:26 am
b9 wrote:
nick007 wrote:
b9 wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
What type of guys get slurs like pedophile etc......
priests
if they think it is funny then that is a problem as well.
joke:
Q: how do you get a nun pregnant?
A: dress her up as an altar boy.
Yeah that reminds me of those prison jokes about "dropping the soap" in the shower.
It's really disgusting when people make jokes about things like that.
11 Oct 2018, 8:35 am
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