nick007
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Location: was Louisiana but now Vermont in capitalistic military dictatorship called USA
07 Feb 2019, 7:07 am
07 Feb 2019, 10:02 am
12 Feb 2019, 1:28 pm
12 Feb 2019, 2:34 pm
Alita wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
When I asked him about it one time, he came out and told me that he thought our parties were boring because we kept doing the same thing. "All you guys do is watch movies, eat cookies and drink lukewarm water."
Lukewarm water? Would that be tea?
No, it wasn't tea and there were other things to drink and come to think of it, everyone at these gatherings were on the spectrum. He has gotten an ego ever since he has joined this group that consists of wild partying and heavy drinking. This group also consists of some really flaky and phony group who put on heirs about themselves.
12 Feb 2019, 2:45 pm
12 Feb 2019, 4:11 pm
13 Feb 2019, 5:50 pm
Summer_Twilight wrote:
Alita wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
When I asked him about it one time, he came out and told me that he thought our parties were boring because we kept doing the same thing. "All you guys do is watch movies, eat cookies and drink lukewarm water."
Lukewarm water? Would that be tea?
No, it wasn't tea and there were other things to drink and come to think of it, everyone at these gatherings were on the spectrum. He has gotten an ego ever since he has joined this group that consists of wild partying and heavy drinking. This group also consists of some really flaky and phony group who put on heirs about themselves.I had a friend like that once. When she met a group of 'cool' girls, she abandoned me and my friend, thinking she was better than us. They can't have been true friends to start out with if they do that.
14 Feb 2019, 2:28 pm
Alita wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
Alita wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
When I asked him about it one time, he came out and told me that he thought our parties were boring because we kept doing the same thing. "All you guys do is watch movies, eat cookies and drink lukewarm water."
Lukewarm water? Would that be tea?
No, it wasn't tea and there were other things to drink and come to think of it, everyone at these gatherings were on the spectrum. He has gotten an ego ever since he has joined this group that consists of wild partying and heavy drinking. This group also consists of some really flaky and phony group who put on heirs about themselves.I had a friend like that once. When she met a group of 'cool' girls, she abandoned me and my friend, thinking she was better than us. They can't have been true friends to start out with if they do that.
I don't want to talk too much about him because it gets me so vexed because he is so arrogant.
. What's so important about getting drunk anyway? Does it cure his autism? :lol" His "Friends" have one done him any favors. However, he often seems like he's confused when I talk to him.
15 Feb 2019, 9:15 am
Summer_Twilight wrote:
Alita wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
Alita wrote:
Summer_Twilight wrote:
When I asked him about it one time, he came out and told me that he thought our parties were boring because we kept doing the same thing. "All you guys do is watch movies, eat cookies and drink lukewarm water."
Lukewarm water? Would that be tea?
No, it wasn't tea and there were other things to drink and come to think of it, everyone at these gatherings were on the spectrum. He has gotten an ego ever since he has joined this group that consists of wild partying and heavy drinking. This group also consists of some really flaky and phony group who put on heirs about themselves.I had a friend like that once. When she met a group of 'cool' girls, she abandoned me and my friend, thinking she was better than us. They can't have been true friends to start out with if they do that.
I don't want to talk too much about him because it gets me so vexed because he is so arrogant.
. What's so important about getting drunk anyway? Does it cure his autism? :lol" His "Friends" have one done him any favors. However, he often seems like he's confused when I talk to him.Sure, I understand. It sounds like he just needs to sort some stuff out.
18 Feb 2019, 12:35 pm
18 Feb 2019, 12:46 pm
18 Feb 2019, 6:25 pm
Summer_Twilight, that sounds awful from a church person. They could have at least arranged for someone else to meet with you. 
Have you noticed people who have been spoilt by their families tend to do this more?
19 Feb 2019, 9:37 am
Alita wrote:
Summer_Twilight, that sounds awful from a church person. They could have at least arranged for someone else to meet with you.
Have you noticed people who have been spoilt by their families tend to do this more?
Have you noticed people who have been spoilt by their families tend to do this more?
Oh yes, I have noticed that pattern from people who are very spoiled as well flake out like that. It because they are using to allowing their parents to let them do whatever they want and treat others anyway they want.
1. That aspie that I mentioned who abandoned our group for a bunch of NTs seems like he is very spoiled in addition to being a snob.
2. The woman promised to write to me while in combat training and never did, I would say so. For one thing, she didn't seem to have respect for other people's feelings. Rather she threw a hissy fit every time I called her out and was very immature about it.
19 Feb 2019, 4:25 pm
That's no good. Life is too short to spend it so selfishly. I hope they get some clarity. It's sad, but sometimes you just have to move on and hope to find better friends. 
20 Feb 2019, 8:37 am
Alita wrote:
That's no good. Life is too short to spend it so selfishly. I hope they get some clarity. It's sad, but sometimes you just have to move on and hope to find better friends.
Not only is their behavior selfish but it's also very rude to make plans and then flake like that.
1. The woman who flaked out at me from that singles group was definitely very selfish and you could tell that she lived in her own little world. She was even out of it when she apologized to me. "We never did meet did we?" I said, "I know sweetie." I also put it in a nice Christmas card and a candy cane that year that I was calling all plans off and not to worry about it. "I don't think it was meant to be."
2. When my childhood friend became a teen, she outgrew me even though we re-connected after taking a break for a few years. Yet, she didn't even want to be with me then but she led me on. This was by postponing twice and playing games with me on the phone. Meanwhile, she had made plans to go out with her boyfriend because they had a date." My childhood friend grew up to be very selfish in addition to being extremely spoiled as her mom let her do whatever she wanted. I was really mad at her for a long time after that I and I let her know it too even though she and her mom let it go in one ear and out the other.
20 Feb 2019, 2:59 pm
Good on you for calling it out. You probably educated her a bit. 
Sometimes it's so hard to forget the rude things people do. I try to focus on the ones I like and let the rest fall by the wayside. Like you say, if it's not meant to be, eh. Plenty of fish and adventures in the sea!
