Joe90 wrote:
I think when people say "that's old for a cat" what they really mean is "wow, that's impressive". People like the thought of animals being alive and healthy for as long as possible.
It's a bit like when someone is in their 90s or 100s, people make a big deal out of how old they are, but it's not supposed to be offensive.
I agree. Sometimes a cigar is just a cigar. "That's old for a cat" (or dog) means exactly that: the animal lived longer than its average lifespan. In most Western cultures, people like the idea of having a pet around for a long time, and it's one of the ways they word it. Heck, I've said the same thing myself.
Unless the person has a history of being a bully (like a school bully) or mocking you (like a lot of therapists), assume their remark is complimentary. It's best for your own mental health, and it avoids the risk of creating bad blood with an unnecessary negative reaction.
08 Nov 2020, 11:50 am
