I recently got into a big argument with a close friend of mine that made me question the whole friendship.
other than him i've got four-ish. I met two girls during a trip to Europe (my school was grouped with a school from Manitoba) and i kept in touch with them and we've become pretty close. another girl that was on the rowing team last year but changed schools, kept in touch with her and we talk alot on msn. The last one is where the four-ish comes in. We're definitely friends, we're both in engineering, both hang out, but i don't talk to her much or hang out with her much outside of school. The reason i'd say she's probably a close friend is because while i was in the hospital for a few days (acute kidney failure, rowing incident, long story short it went away) and she dropped by without me asking or anything, and hung around a bit while i was passed out (morphine's a hell of a drug). that's when i kind of realized that i do care for her alot, even though we don't talk much.