Is being called weird offensive to you?

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12 Jan 2006, 3:28 pm

I'll take it as a compliment in the future, if anyone does.

Weirdness and individuality is something that just was not allowed in the house I grew up in. I had to play the part my parents expected for me to survive. When people called me weird outside of home it just made me so anxious and nervous. I felt like I wasn't doing a good job at home and my parents could tell and I'd get yelled at, again. Every single moved I made was to avoid getting yelled at.

So I'd study people more, repress everything & try harder.



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12 Jan 2006, 3:30 pm

I've always been told that I was weird, so I don't have a problem with it anymore. I mean I've seen "normal", I'll take weird any day of the week.



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12 Jan 2006, 4:49 pm

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I mean I've seen "normal", I'll take weird any day of the week.
I am not sure, but I think you mean what you mean here. Knowing what kind of stupid and awfull a lot of so called "normal" people do, being normal too is not something we would like.



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12 Jan 2006, 9:15 pm

You know, it's pretty weird to mispell "wierd".



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12 Jan 2006, 9:30 pm

thepeaguy wrote:
You know, it's pretty weird to mispell "wierd".


You wouldn't be worried that you'd have to be totally wired to misspell a word like weird, or would you just want to ward off wild and weird word abuse such as I just perpetrated?

((Like I said: Statement of fact.))



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12 Jan 2006, 9:33 pm

Serissa wrote:
thepeaguy wrote:
You know, it's pretty weird to mispell "wierd".


You wouldn't be worried that you'd have to be totally wired to misspell a word like weird, or would you just want to ward off wild and weird word abuse such as I just perpetrated?

((Like I said: Statement of fact.))


The latter.

Yay for psuedo-intellectuals and their words that people rarely uses!



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12 Jan 2006, 9:58 pm

thepeaguy wrote:
You know, it's pretty weird to mispell "wierd".


It's also weird to point that out when everyone else decided not to... :wink:



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12 Jan 2006, 10:12 pm

GalileoAce wrote:
thepeaguy wrote:
You know, it's pretty weird to mispell "wierd".


It's also weird to point that out when everyone else decided not to... :wink:


I noes, so therefore I'm the King of "Wierd" and you are all my subjects.

Pass me that crown, Sophist, plz.



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12 Jan 2006, 11:12 pm

I'm offended when my parents presume that one day i will "grow up" or "finally understand" or "get more normal" Like i'm not actually a human being right now, i'm some kind of animal, and one day i will blossom into a real human being.


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12 Jan 2006, 11:17 pm

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I'm offended when my parents presume that one day i will "grow up" or "finally understand" or "get more normal" Like i'm not actually a human being right now, i'm some kind of animal, and one day i will blossom into a real human being.


:cry: :? Maybe one day they'll "finally understand" :roll:


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12 Jan 2006, 11:18 pm

Nomaken wrote:
I'm offended when my parents presume that one day i will "grow up" or "finally understand" or "get more normal" Like i'm not actually a human being right now, i'm some kind of animal, and one day i will blossom into a real human being.


There's a word to discribe their notions. It's called ignorance.



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12 Jan 2006, 11:39 pm

Lots of people call me weird, I kinda like it. I hate the thought of being just like everybody else. Plus I KNOW im weird, its nothing new that theyre saying. Now that I kind of know WHY im weird, it's even eaiser to take.



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12 Jan 2006, 11:55 pm

thepeaguy wrote:
The latter.

Yay for psuedo-intellectuals and their words that people rarely uses!


What, Perpetrate? That's what you call it when you wear two opposing name brands, like Nike and Adidas! :P ((Or at least this was the explanation given to me in 2000 or 2001 by p[eople who spoke a lot of slang))



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13 Jan 2006, 3:19 am

I find it hard to understand how people can find something thats said in an offensive way intending to be offensive like it's a compliment.

I only do it as a joke to throw back people, when they say really offensive things and I thank them for the complement.



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13 Jan 2006, 3:32 am

I don't see being called weird as anything other than a statement of fact, and a compliment, so even if it was meant offensively I feel it's still just a statement of who I am.

If someone called me stupid, on the other hand, I'd take offense at it, but probably do as you do and thank them.



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13 Jan 2006, 7:57 am

Serissa wrote:
thepeaguy wrote:
The latter.

Yay for psuedo-intellectuals and their words that people rarely uses!


What, Perpetrate? That's what you call it when you wear two opposing name brands, like Nike and Adidas! :P ((Or at least this was the explanation given to me in 2000 or 2001 by p[eople who spoke a lot of slang))


Well, I hardly see it being used in a verbal conversation where I live.