I have absolutely no friends
Yigeren wrote:
Haven't had friends in over 14 years. Zero. The ones I had in school (middle and high school) weren't real friends and treated me like crap.
Then why didn't you dump them and make new friends?
I think people made efforts in the last few years but I totally missed it.
Maybe you should be more receptive
I have nothing in common with anyone.
If that statement has one exception, the whole statement is false
People think I'm weird or eccentric unless I'm fake, and I can't keep up with the fake persona for long.
"Weird" is not necessarily bad. But being in the minority is often dysfunctional and inconvenient. Relative to being in the majority
No one cares about any of the things I'm interested in, and I don't care about what interests them.
Seven billion precious lil "people" in the world and zero, not one "cares"?
I don't care about modern music, 95 percent of tv programs, celebrities, nearly all movies. I don't care about gossiping, most fashion, talking about people's kids. I don't have a very feminine sort of personality compared to many women. And I don't have a masculine one either.
I want to talk about science, anthropology, cooking, physical fitness, anything I enjoy doing, in a logical and reasonable manner.
Plenty of men and women are interested in that. Not the slightest bit unusual
Meettup.com
I'll talk about a lot of other subjects, as long as they aren't silly or pointless.
"Silly or pointless" to whom?
I don't want to talk about the weather or team sports.
There is no extortion involved. If you do not want to talk about it, you do not have to
I don't like stupid people generally (sorry, I know it's mean) and have difficulty talking with them.
"Stupid" according to your standards. You do not have their Stanford binet IQ scores. Intelligence is not a choice or a felony or moral flaw.
Then join Mensa
Ableism
Most people I find to be boring and illogical.
Logic is not superior to emotion
What you find boring, someone else finds exciting
Too much excitement, adrenal fatigue
Too much boredom, obsessive compulsive disorder
They have strong opinions over things they know nothing about and can't back up their opinions with any sound arguments.
Like what?
I am just sick and tired of being friendless.
Maybe if you were not so picky, you would not have that problem
Every once in awhile I meet someone really interesting and I'm so thrilled to have a real conversation.
"Interesting" is often used as a euphemism for, when the speaker does not like it but is trying to feign fascination for etiquette
The situation feels quite hopeless.
Then why didn't you dump them and make new friends?
I think people made efforts in the last few years but I totally missed it.
Maybe you should be more receptive
I have nothing in common with anyone.
If that statement has one exception, the whole statement is false
People think I'm weird or eccentric unless I'm fake, and I can't keep up with the fake persona for long.
"Weird" is not necessarily bad. But being in the minority is often dysfunctional and inconvenient. Relative to being in the majority
No one cares about any of the things I'm interested in, and I don't care about what interests them.
Seven billion precious lil "people" in the world and zero, not one "cares"?
I don't care about modern music, 95 percent of tv programs, celebrities, nearly all movies. I don't care about gossiping, most fashion, talking about people's kids. I don't have a very feminine sort of personality compared to many women. And I don't have a masculine one either.
I want to talk about science, anthropology, cooking, physical fitness, anything I enjoy doing, in a logical and reasonable manner.
Plenty of men and women are interested in that. Not the slightest bit unusual
Meettup.com
I'll talk about a lot of other subjects, as long as they aren't silly or pointless.
"Silly or pointless" to whom?
I don't want to talk about the weather or team sports.
There is no extortion involved. If you do not want to talk about it, you do not have to
I don't like stupid people generally (sorry, I know it's mean) and have difficulty talking with them.
"Stupid" according to your standards. You do not have their Stanford binet IQ scores. Intelligence is not a choice or a felony or moral flaw.
Then join Mensa
Ableism
Most people I find to be boring and illogical.
Logic is not superior to emotion
What you find boring, someone else finds exciting
Too much excitement, adrenal fatigue
Too much boredom, obsessive compulsive disorder
They have strong opinions over things they know nothing about and can't back up their opinions with any sound arguments.
Like what?
I am just sick and tired of being friendless.
Maybe if you were not so picky, you would not have that problem
Every once in awhile I meet someone really interesting and I'm so thrilled to have a real conversation.
"Interesting" is often used as a euphemism for, when the speaker does not like it but is trying to feign fascination for etiquette
The situation feels quite hopeless.
It might be hopeless
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
Same here. Not had since i was probaly 15. I never grew up, i am still stuck at age 15 mentally. Tried to fix it, nothing working. Plus i am very ugly. Nobody wants to be friend with a guy who is very ugly and have low iq.
Correction: no one wants to be friends with someone who spouts incel ideology all over the internet. That tends to put people off, when you constantly demonize women and say sexist garbage while drowning in self-pity. It's not an effective way to make friends, it only serves to isolate you further. If you got away from the incel ideology you might have better luck making friends.
so how come 99 % of all very ugly guys are forever alone? i am right on this one.
i dont support the incel ideology, do you hate males for saying that males are shallow?
i never demonized women, there is nothing wrong with not wanting very ugly low iq males. this is not sexism.
what self-pity? i shout out facts about myself is not self-pity. i just use myself as an exemple.
i am tired that people think that guys who cant get a girlfriend and friends is because of "bad personality", you can actually be to ugly for love and friendship, like i am. there is no doubt this is truth.
Habibi wrote:
i dont support the incel ideology, do you hate males for saying that males are shallow?
You obviously do because you keep repeating their talking points and you've said in another comment that a lot of what they say is true. I don't hate males. I do intensely dislike incels because they are dangerous to women and potentially violent.
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karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
i dont support the incel ideology, do you hate males for saying that males are shallow?
You obviously do because you keep repeating their talking points and you've said in another comment that a lot of what they say is true. I don't hate males. I do intensely dislike incels because they are dangerous to women and potentially violent.
Just because i agree with some things they say does not make me a incel or that i support violent towards women. you are just being silly right now. if you like communism does that mean that you like stalin and his massmurder? no.
so you dont hate males even thought you say the same thing about males that i say about females? thats such a weird way to see it. I dont hate females just because i say that they dont like brutally ugly guys with low iq such as myself, wtf. i understand why women dont like me, and i dont hate them for it, its understandble that women dont want to be in a relationship with a guy who is brutally ugly.
Rad Rockit
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Joined: 23 Feb 2019
Age: 35
Gender: Male
Posts: 357
Location: Everywhere and nowhere.
Habibi wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
i dont support the incel ideology, do you hate males for saying that males are shallow?
You obviously do because you keep repeating their talking points and you've said in another comment that a lot of what they say is true. I don't hate males. I do intensely dislike incels because they are dangerous to women and potentially violent.
Just because i agree with some things they say does not make me a incel or that i support violent towards women. you are just being silly right now. if you like communism does that mean that you like stalin and his massmurder? no.
so you dont hate males even thought you say the same thing about males that i say about females? thats such a weird way to see it. I dont hate females just because i say that they dont like brutally ugly guys with low iq such as myself, wtf. i understand why women dont like me, and i dont hate them for it, its understandble that women dont want to be in a relationship with a guy who is brutally ugly.
I never made any claims about males, you are the one making generalizations which is why I'm reporting you repeatedly for breaking the rules. You are not allowed to say "all men are like this" or "all women are like that" because those are sexist generalizations. So if you don't want to get banned for talking just like an incel then stop saying all the things that incels say on their forums here, because it's against the rules of this forum. If you want to talk about incel stuff go do it with other incels.
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
i dont support the incel ideology, do you hate males for saying that males are shallow?
You obviously do because you keep repeating their talking points and you've said in another comment that a lot of what they say is true. I don't hate males. I do intensely dislike incels because they are dangerous to women and potentially violent.
Just because i agree with some things they say does not make me a incel or that i support violent towards women. you are just being silly right now. if you like communism does that mean that you like stalin and his massmurder? no.
so you dont hate males even thought you say the same thing about males that i say about females? thats such a weird way to see it. I dont hate females just because i say that they dont like brutally ugly guys with low iq such as myself, wtf. i understand why women dont like me, and i dont hate them for it, its understandble that women dont want to be in a relationship with a guy who is brutally ugly.
I never made any claims about males, you are the one making generalizations which is why I'm reporting you repeatedly for breaking the rules. You are not allowed to say "all men are like this" or "all women are like that" because those are sexist generalizations. So if you don't want to get banned for talking just like an incel then stop saying all the things that incels say on their forums here, because it's against the rules of this forum. If you want to talk about incel stuff go do it with other incels.
people do generalizations about males on this forum all the time. there is nothing wrong with that as long as you dont make hateful comments.
but...yourself (or was it somone else) just said that no females wants to be with a guy who has bad personality, so according to you, all females dislike guys who have bad personalites, so that is ok to say, but its not okay to say that females are not intrested in brutally ugly guys?
nope, i am not an incel for claming truth, that women dont like guys who are brutally ugly and are socially handicapped, its nothing radical to say this. you dont even have a argument against this. give some exemple of a socially akward guy who is brutally ugly who have a gf. go ahead.
Habibi wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
i dont support the incel ideology, do you hate males for saying that males are shallow?
You obviously do because you keep repeating their talking points and you've said in another comment that a lot of what they say is true. I don't hate males. I do intensely dislike incels because they are dangerous to women and potentially violent.
Just because i agree with some things they say does not make me a incel or that i support violent towards women. you are just being silly right now. if you like communism does that mean that you like stalin and his massmurder? no.
so you dont hate males even thought you say the same thing about males that i say about females? thats such a weird way to see it. I dont hate females just because i say that they dont like brutally ugly guys with low iq such as myself, wtf. i understand why women dont like me, and i dont hate them for it, its understandble that women dont want to be in a relationship with a guy who is brutally ugly.
I never made any claims about males, you are the one making generalizations which is why I'm reporting you repeatedly for breaking the rules. You are not allowed to say "all men are like this" or "all women are like that" because those are sexist generalizations. So if you don't want to get banned for talking just like an incel then stop saying all the things that incels say on their forums here, because it's against the rules of this forum. If you want to talk about incel stuff go do it with other incels.
people do generalizations about males on this forum all the time. there is nothing wrong with that as long as you dont make hateful comments.
but...yourself (or was it somone else) just said that no females wants to be with a guy who has bad personality, so according to you, all females dislike guys who have bad personalites, so that is ok to say, but its not okay to say that females are not intrested in brutally ugly guys?
nope, i am not an incel for claming truth, that women dont like guys who are brutally ugly and are socially handicapped, its nothing radical to say this. you dont even have a argument against this. give some exemple of a socially akward guy who is brutally ugly who have a gf. go ahead.
No actually I never did say that. Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett. There you go, that was easy to disprove.
This is really low effort trolling.
If you want to make friends, nobody is stopping you
If you do not want to make friends, fine
There could be reasons beyond your control that you don't have friends
Having friends is not always a good thing. Someone told me that her friends cat dropped dead. She was out with the friend until 2am
More friends means more social obligation
Fewer friends mean less to lose
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
karathraceandherspecialdestiny wrote:
Habibi wrote:
i dont support the incel ideology, do you hate males for saying that males are shallow?
You obviously do because you keep repeating their talking points and you've said in another comment that a lot of what they say is true. I don't hate males. I do intensely dislike incels because they are dangerous to women and potentially violent.
Just because i agree with some things they say does not make me a incel or that i support violent towards women. you are just being silly right now. if you like communism does that mean that you like stalin and his massmurder? no.
so you dont hate males even thought you say the same thing about males that i say about females? thats such a weird way to see it. I dont hate females just because i say that they dont like brutally ugly guys with low iq such as myself, wtf. i understand why women dont like me, and i dont hate them for it, its understandble that women dont want to be in a relationship with a guy who is brutally ugly.
I never made any claims about males, you are the one making generalizations which is why I'm reporting you repeatedly for breaking the rules. You are not allowed to say "all men are like this" or "all women are like that" because those are sexist generalizations. So if you don't want to get banned for talking just like an incel then stop saying all the things that incels say on their forums here, because it's against the rules of this forum. If you want to talk about incel stuff go do it with other incels.
people do generalizations about males on this forum all the time. there is nothing wrong with that as long as you dont make hateful comments.
but...yourself (or was it somone else) just said that no females wants to be with a guy who has bad personality, so according to you, all females dislike guys who have bad personalites, so that is ok to say, but its not okay to say that females are not intrested in brutally ugly guys?
nope, i am not an incel for claming truth, that women dont like guys who are brutally ugly and are socially handicapped, its nothing radical to say this. you dont even have a argument against this. give some exemple of a socially akward guy who is brutally ugly who have a gf. go ahead.
No actually I never did say that. Julia Roberts married Lyle Lovett. There you go, that was easy to disprove.
This is really low effort trolling.
so just 1 guy, who has money, and is famous and has high iq. if you take 1000 lyle lovett only 1 of them will ever have a gf. you are just focusing on that 1 lucky guy. and i dont even think he has 100 flaws, more like 5.
i am not trolling.
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One of my special interests is the weather
Me too. and pets, and wildlife I've seen, and gardening, and certain types of music, and the health of me, other ppl, and pets.
All have been dismissed by many when they say they hate small talk and want to hear about my real interests.
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