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What about dogs?
I'm fond of them 84%  84%  [ 61 ]
I don't care 5%  5%  [ 4 ]
I'm afraid of them 11%  11%  [ 8 ]
Total votes : 73

greej
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23 Jun 2010, 11:07 pm

my main special interest is dogs!

if they aren't socialized properly, dogs can be afraid of people who walk/stand/act differently than normal people. dogs tend to also be nervous about people who stare directly at them (which you might be doing if you're afraid of them) (like my rescue dog is--sometimes i wish i could tell people to leave her alone!), especially if you're otherwise motionless--that is VERY threatening in dog body language.

when you're around dogs, try to act relaxed instead of trying to overexagerate confidence. walk "fluidly", don't be stiff, don't look the dog in the eye, and just turn away from the dog if it starts barking at you, or even if you notice that it starts staring at you. breathe deeply and calmly. yawning while turning away can also help, as it signifies to the other dog that you're trying to ease the tension. if a dog comes up to you to try to solicit attention, try very hard not to pet it on the head, especially if it's a strange dog, because most dogs don't actually like that. instead pet him on his chest or just above his tail, on his butt. : P

hope this helps! also, remember that most "aggression" is usually fear, especially if they're barking at you and trying to look tough.



LKL
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24 Jun 2010, 2:20 am

Dogs are very skilled at reading human body language, which can put someone who has 'odd' bod language (like some aspies) at a disadvantage because the dog sees it as odd and therefore potentially dangerous to itself or its human.

While I have some strong problems with Cesar Milan (his words are old-fashioned and overly based on 'dominance,' but his interactions with the dogs are very good), this video covers the three main causes of dog aggression very well. It won't necessarily help you, as a non-dog-owner, interact with strange dogs, but it might help you understand some of what's going on with you and dogs and therefore help you in the long run, if you want to work on the issue.

http://www.hulu.com/watch/155653/dog-wh ... ive-breeds

Personally, I love dogs. I don't think I could be happy without my own dog; I was always one of those kids who just 'is good' with animals. I think I'm more of a Temple-Grandin-type aspie; I understand animals better than people sometimes. It's not true that they're simple, but it is true that they're honest.