Sexual life with AS

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And that's how I feel about it as well. I can call a escort or find a prostitute easily. It's just not on my moral or logical grounds. Sex is nothing without love.

I course, me being the 25 year old virgin with my circle of friends - except for a few, I'm willing to do a random f*ck in a FWB/NSA situation so I know what it feels like and I'll be able to redeem myself finally.

Last edited by nthach on 11 Oct 2010, 10:59 pm, edited 1 time in total.

you have something to be thankful for, then.

I know, exactly, and I think there is nothing wrong with that, that's how I think people should normally feel. I know there is something about sex, some sort of chemical bonding and when you break up with that person, especially if it is the first time having sex, you feel very depressed and distressed, like a part of you was taken away.

Yeah, I know what you mean. Although I'm not really picked on for being a virgin, that's probably because I'm a girl. It's silly.

I would never get a prostitute myself. I find loving your partner to be far too big a factor. After all I only look to please the recipient anyway. Like I said It's a small obsession of mine to be as good at it as I possibly can. I do love driving a girl crazy wi- whoa sorry about that almost went somewhere I shouldn't go lol.

Good thing you stopped where you did. This ain't the Adult forum after all.

I agree with you though. The best part of it to me is making a significant other happy. ^_^

I'm asexual. I made up my mind at four years old I was never having children let alone get married. I declaired celabacy after I learned the process of where babies really come from. He's supposed to put his what in my where!?! That's NEVER going to happen. I never wanted friends as a kid and even as a teenager so why on earth would I want a boyfriend. I had casual friends who were male but I never felt anything twoards them. I once developed a crush on a South African zoologist who studdies meerkats but I wonder if it was a true crush becuase I knew in the back of my mind a relationship with anyone was impossible for me. I'm American, he's an Afrikaner. I feel like an outsider in with my own family so a relationship with someone from another culture wouldn't work out at all. I used to wonder if I was secretly a lesbian but I never felt anything twoards other women. I was happy to be alone and focus on my special intrests. The idea of even being close to someone emotionaly repluses me. I'm married to my special intrests.

I've always been sexual since a young age. I didn't lost my virginity until I was 18 and didn't date in high school, but compared to the rest of my friends, I'm the most sexually open of everyone, despite having fewer overall partners! I'm attracted to all varieties of gender presentations (trans people included) and have a healthy level of kink in my life. My partner and I also have explored non-monogamy. I think all of these things are great, and healthy, and I think possibly being able to think more in terms of 'logic' rather than emotion are why I can rationalize loving one person, but still wanting to sleep with other people.

That's not to say jealousy hasn't come into play in big ways sometimes (hello meltdown!), but I feel like my partner and I have a much healthier view of sex and relationships than most of my peers do.

Like someone else said, I am VERY visual. I heard that that can be a part of AS? I could spend all day staring at my boyfriend if he would let me. There's something extremely satisfying about just LOOKING at him for me. Maybe it's part of the getting caught up in details thing?

If the day comes, I would explore my partner by feel. I'll use my hands, tongue, and ahem, my member. I've always been a kinesthetic person. Visuals would turn me on, but I need to explore the workings guys.