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Kellaway225
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18 Apr 2007, 7:07 am

i do thats why i spend most of my time in my room doing something i enjoy NO not that but playing on my computer



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18 Apr 2007, 5:00 pm

I felt unwanted for awhile, but not so much now.



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18 Apr 2007, 5:01 pm

im not only unwanted.... i repulse women, apparently


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21 Apr 2007, 6:24 am

Fatallyflawed wrote:
I wonder what its like to feel "wanted". Must be nice.


No, its best to never have known. The rare persons who seem to really want me around are always the ones I lose. And they are all gone now. :(



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21 Apr 2007, 10:44 am

I feel like I am innately unwanted, until it's found I can offer something to the group. I've been told I can be pretty hilarious from time to time, and in that way, I find my niche. If I'm having an off day, and not making my friends laugh, I think they kinda ignore me. It feels horrible!


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21 Apr 2007, 11:42 am

There are only a few people in real life that actually want me around. Everyone else makes fun of me, hates me, and/or don't know I exist. It gets very depressing.


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23 Apr 2007, 12:48 pm

im not even an aspie and i feel this way everytime i walk into a room i feel like everyone thinks to themselves "oh sh*t alex is back" but i know that its just my insecurities getting the best of me
i cant think of anyone aspie or not who hasnt felt unwanted

and before you guys start saying i dont know what its like because im an NT
trust me i do know what its like i was fiercely bullied and teased throughout my entire school career and then i moved to a new town and since i never really developed any social skills its extremely difficult for me to make new friends ive basically been living in solitude for the past year

but i absolutely REFUSE to let these hard times define me as a person
ill go to parties even though the whole time im there i want to puke because im so nervous
i dont have a good time at all but i force myself to go because its the only way to make friends and eventually meet someone who i could trust enough to get into a relationship with


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30 Apr 2007, 5:23 am

Clueless_Rhino wrote:
I get that alot, too. In fact, that is why I have adopted the rhino persona. Rhinos are generally solitary creatures. Although they do it by choice. I want a tattoo of a rhino with the swahili word for "Outcast" scripted under it. I have always been an outcast. I will probably die alone. Sometimes I ask myself "if a tree falls in the middle of a forest and there isn't anyoue around, will it make a sound? Will anyone care?"


It sucks being alone!! !

what you said got through to me!! !

And i hope you DON'T die alone!! !!