What are some things you do that you know bother people?

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When they get mad at me and i am totally unaware that i did something wrong--that is usually what clues me in. It's still a little hit and miss.

Becoming my alter ego, Humble Vaec of the Road

Being just a General Wolfie Nuisance!

Not talking very much and speaking softly. When I just smile or laugh without saying anything if someone makes a joke to me. People also give me strange looks if I have a neutral expression on my face.

Crunching ice cubes.

I know it bothers people but it's a sensory seeking behaviour for me. Sometimes when I'm not crunching ice I'm grinding my teeth or biting my lips and that's worse for me because there will be pain and blood later.

This one at least I understand why it bothers other people. It's loud. Most of the other things that I do that bother people, I don't really get why it bothers them. I don't see how it effects them, or at least it wouldn't if they weren't watching me and judging me. It would be nice if these other hypercritical people could ignore me to the extent that I (try to) ignore them...

Everyone comes to our house to party ....
I hate the loud people, the kids, the noises.
All their Nasty jokes .... Makes me sick.....
I try to ease into the party but it's because my wife makes me come out of our room to join everyone...... Then I have to take my headphones off.... Then I have to take my ear plugs out....... Then the have to try to smile..... It sucks....

But not joining the party and wearing earplugs around people at the parties.... They don't like that.
It's always a fight ... Gotta hear about that for three days straight till I have a meltdown and then I look like an idiot . Normal people always act like I'm the one who's out of line. I'm more senceir and genuine than any one I know.... And when I can't help it and blurt it out .... They get their feeling hurt.
I wish I was normal. They don't know what it's like to be traped inside yourself .

I fidget a lot and snap my fingers. I tend to snap my fingers when I feel anxious.

My jokes that aren't funny.
Perfectionism disorder.
Logical thoughts disorder.
Being overly independent.
Being too private.
Being cute.

The usual stuff. Not being able to handle white lies and small talk and their ret*d noise and other displeasing and harmful stimuli. Having actual, not superficial interests and actually pursuing them and especially succeeding in something because of that. Having and expressing genuine emotions and thoughts. Putting any value in kindness and intelligence for their own sake rather than for the sake of faking being kind or intelligent.

Having a babyface.

i tend to stare at people. i've been told i "hover." sometimes i say inappropriate things.

Where do I begin..

1) Talk way too fast
2) Offend people ..and make them laugh with my bluntness
3) My Over the top sense of justice and order i.e.: I won't use the bus runways, only the walkways, will pick people's litter up and give it back to them.
4) I possibly interrupt people

I currently have a driver's permit and staunchly refuse to go even one mile per hour over the speed limit. That bothers my mom and other people on the road, but I don't care.

Telling people the cold hard truth if a good one, it often sends chills down their spine because it's true and they know it