skahthic wrote:
Writing is much better for me--- I can plan what i want to say and put my thoughts in order. Speaking in person poses a few problems--- i'll blurt things out and they'll be the wrong things to say, or I get flustered and I can't say anything right at all.
Oh yeah...I would sometimes feel the same way too. My parents have criticized me for saying things they feared would offend others, but it was very unintentional.