Aspie guys and Urinals

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I tried the theater's toilets once, It was small and cramped acess, with kids running around everywhere! >.< Not Good! So I prefer using the stalls from that experiance, which were more roomy and open, more private! ^.^

I'm an Aspie guy and I have always hated using urinals. I try to use the stalls instead. If I have to use a urinal, I hope no one is around. I have a hard time using the urinal when others are present in the bathroom. Recently I walked into a bathroom of a non-busy department store at the mall and was the only in there. I thought, "I'll use the urinal." Just as I was ready to begin my job, in walks some guy and he parked himself at the urinal next to mine. There were other urinals he could have used further down. I had to wait for him to leave to finish.

That happened to me the other day, I walked in the bathroom after I had to leave the other one as it was fully ocupied and I HAD to use the urinal because it was the only thing there, I REALLY had to go to the bathroom but I couldnt go with the creepy dude next to me, I was in school and it was a double period of Biology so I waited a bit for the guy to leave. It took about 10 minutes total nothing crazy long but when I got back my bio teacher made a huge deal of it even though I walked up to him made perfect I contact and said "May I use the lavatory?" and he responded with "Yes you may use the bathroom" he asked "WHERE WERE YOU?! !!" "YOU CANT SKIP LIKE THAT" and then I said "I used the bathroom I even asked you." then he said "NO YOU DIDNT PLEASE DONT LIE TO ME" then I just said in a quiet voice "Please dont insult my intelligence and sat down" it was a bit frustrating.

Ooohh aren't you the funny one.

I avoid urinals when I can too. A little bit because of privacy reasons, but mostly b/c of the slight splashing and not being able to wipe. I mean really, how do other guys deal with that? It's nasty to me.

To be quite honestly and frank I dont wipe unless I have to crap....

Thanks for sharing :-p

Not an issue for me, really. Most guys usually hate standing next to each-other anyway, there tends to be an arm's length of space at least.

Don't peek at his weiner.

Is that hard to grasp?

That has a terrible pun to it....Its not that I guess my aspie paranoia is kicking in under the normal shield I give off.

Boy, you people sure would have hated the bathrooms at Navy boot camp - there weren't even any partitions between the toilets!

I bet...I want to join the Army when I am older and I just cant wait for that. haha

I bet they also enjoy the showers together.

George Costanza is "a bathroom stall man."

I don't mind so much when it's spaced out and there's one of those plastic walls between the other urinal.

Other than that, I use the toilet at all costs.

I really sympathize for you guys and having to use urinals. It makes you wonder what perv invented the design of public bathrooms. Even for women its bad because stalls have that space around the door and other women do peep in at you which is uncomfortable if you are trying to change your tampon or pad, wiping or taking a poop. They need to have white noise machines in the restrooms to drown out the sounds so no one can hear what the person in the next stall is doing.

I remember in elementary school the girls bathroom doors left wide open at the entrance so people in the hallway could see in and no doors on the stalls. I used to be so bothered by using the restroom at school I would hold it all day long till I got home!

Sounds like the restrooms at my junior high and high school.