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I personally like clubbing

i am going to see my new bloke spin some tunes at a burlesque thing in soho tonight! it should be fun

I live in Las Vegas. The types of clubs the columnist disparages are taken to extremes here, and they're located inside the major resort-casinos. It's almost all for tourists from the boring parts of the U.S.A. The independent clubs that exist apart from the hotels, aside from the Empire Ballroom (big on house, I hear), are dangerous low-class dives that play only Top 40 hip hop and where fights, knifings, and shootouts happen.

Nightclubs are awful.

In my home town there is a particular club called O'Neils and there are two bars. One downstairs and another upstairs with a dance floor.

As people(women) walk up the stairs all the men will line up against the bar and watch the women and decide who they want to have sex with and then procede to try and get her drunk as possible. If she isn't interested the man will just move on to the next women(literally) even if this means hitting on the previous womens friend.

The women will get so drunk they can barely walk and allow themselves to be touched up by any guy and then she complains when he calls her a slut/shank/b***h etc. At the end of the night it's possible to watch people getting more and more desperate for someone to take home and they will then take anyone.

Sad thing is, I think this is quite common up and down England. It's certainly one of the main reasons I don't go clubbing.

Hate nghtclubs filled with drunken morons, music is always to loud cant hear myself think also cant dance to save my life just feel uncomfortable.
My girlfiend hates nightclubs to for the same reason also with both don't drink alcohol.

The only nightclubs I go to are the ones at Pleasure Island at Walt Disney World. They have a club there called 8Trax that plays 70s and 80s music. It's awesome for dancing and also for learning social skills, although that part isn't always so awesome. I learned the hard way that people need their space...A concept which I didn't understand even after it had been said to me multiple times. I learned what to do and what not to do, and now I can understand things better.

I always impress people with my dancing. I don't believe in line-dancing. Freestyle dancing is where it's at for me. My dancing, my terms, my rules, Hell yeah!

I have never been clubbing but I can already tell I would hate it. Even seeing it in movies, etc., makes me anxious. Mostly it looks like sensory overload!

Hey, this is my first post on WP,

There's a couple nightclubs here where I live.

I tend to avoid them, although I wouldn't mind being part of the bar scene.

But, I don't know HOW to initiate one-night stands and hook-ups, let alone talk to people.

Plus, I can't drink anyway 'cause I'm on Meds so I don't even try. I feel repressed alot of the time, though.

I can't drink alcohol (interferes with my meds) and I'm not good at social interaction to begin with when I'm sober so I tend to avoid crowds......although there's something in me that still wants to go out......

Meh, I am going to try a club for the first time tonight. Hopefully it will be fun.

I've only ever been to one real nightclub and I friggin hated it! It was doubly awful because it was a friend's birthday and she had played the "if you were a real friend you'd come to my birthday" card so I couldn't even leave. We started in a bar that had stupidly loud music, but I coped with this pretty well. I drank some alcopops that left my teeth furry and made me feel slightly less anxious. I was still bored out of my mind though as I couldn't hear a bleedin thing. Then we went out into the February cold to some hideous place in manchester. We had to queue up, be interrogated by a total dickhead bouncer, pay an extortionate fee to get in, then another one to store our coats. The moment i stepped inside my anxiety levels went through the roof and I started squirming to get out. In the end, I found a corner and just hid in it until it was time to go home. I actually sat rocking!! The music was awful, the people were awful, everything was awful.

My boyfriend assures me that it was merely the crap nature of this club that I disliked and that if I found one that played the kind of music I like I would like it. But it's the combination of loud music that you can't turn off, flashing lights, boiling heat, having to order drinks over all the noise and being surrounded by smelly drunken people.

It's making me shudder just thinking about it...