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06 Aug 2012, 9:04 am

I hate it when someone calls you certain names,

I had a job coach once go up to me and say, "How are you doing little miss priss?"



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06 Aug 2012, 12:22 pm

I hate it when people keep complaining about their weight when they're literally stick thin in front of me.



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06 Aug 2012, 12:30 pm

Summer_Twilight wrote:
I hate it when someone calls you certain names,

I had a job coach once go up to me and say, "How are you doing little miss priss?"

A nice reply would have been, "Just fine Mr. Prick." :twisted:


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06 Aug 2012, 1:43 pm

lostgirl1986 wrote:
I hate it when people keep complaining about their weight when they're literally stick thin in front of me.


I had a female cousin who was 18 at the time do that and was it ever annoying! I was so frustrated I just wanted to just say "yes, you are way too fat. No wonder everyone laughs at you behind your back you pig." She literally looked like a model: slim, long blonde hair, blue eyes, good figure all around. Bottom line if we weren't related I could say she was extremely attractive. Suddenly, she became paranoid about her 'weight' to the point she dyed her hair purple and cut it short, wore black makeup and dressed like a freak, likely so that nobody would notice her "weight". She was literally pencil thin at this point in her life!

As for me personally, I H-A-T-E it when a family member would say to me 'my, someone's in a bad mood!'. Yes, and you mentioning it constantly is only making it worse!



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08 Aug 2012, 12:44 am

"I know, right?" Why do you need verification that you know? (This might not be on topic, but that phrase annoys me.)
"You're too quiet/serious/shy/uptight."
"Just change your mood...it's not that hard." Um, yes it is. I don't enjoy being in bad moods. If I could get out of them, I would. I promise.
"You don't have Asperger's...you're just shy." Oh, really? Thank you, Mr. Psychologist...that takes a load off my mind.



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09 Aug 2012, 11:45 pm

When someone is talking about something or complaining aobut something & i offer an idea, suggestion, theory & the person tells me something like "you think you know everything" or they get sarcastic with me & say "Ok genius" or or ask me where is my college degree ect


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10 Aug 2012, 2:22 pm

My red-hot button is when someone tries to make me believe that X is the moral thing for me to do when actually it's what suits THEIR interests. If you ever see someone do this to me, brace yourself because my reaction is memorable. I don't raise my voice, but what I answer them, they'll never forget in a lifetime.

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"Be quiet and show respect, this is a theater/plane/opera house/conference!" (when I'm assertively telling someone sitting in my hugely-expensive seat to get up and go to his very cheap seat area. They try to silence me, because it's easier than backing me up against the thief so he'll leave my seat. And yes, I've had this done to me even by the usher and the air-hostess).

"You need to X" (no, YOU need me to X)


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10 Aug 2012, 2:42 pm

To be honest I'd turn round and say.
"Why the f**k do you care considering you've never bothered trying to know me before passing judgment?"
... Only that would be my response now when I should have used it going through my teens.


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10 Aug 2012, 2:59 pm

I love it when people in the street tell me: "You shouldn't feed stray cats!" (although all the cats are neutered, so they don't reproduce). I answer them: "You're right, stray cats and YOU should be left to starve in the streets."

Once I was feeding a group of 15 strays, this bully-apprentice passes by with his wife and baby in stroller.

"Take all those cats home IMMEDIATELY!" he yells at me.
"Hey cats, great news, we're all going home! HIS!" (and I point at him)
"I said take all that worthless s**t off MY neighborhood streets NOW!"
"The only worthless s**t of the neighborhood is in that stroller you're pushing".

I'm too autistic to understand why he can call MY babies s**t and I can't call HIS baby s**t, so I assume the reason is that humans are worthy of respect just for being humans, and animals are worthy of disrespect just for being non-human. Or maybe he was just pretending to be concerned with morality and he was secretly only caring about his own interests. I'm inclined to believe the latter.


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10 Aug 2012, 5:38 pm

Moondust wrote:
"Take all those cats home IMMEDIATELY!" he yells at me.
"Hey cats, great news, we're all going home! HIS!" (and I point at him)
"I said take all that worthless sh** off MY neighborhood streets NOW!"
"The only worthless sh** of the neighborhood is in that stroller you're pushing".

:lmao:


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10 Aug 2012, 6:50 pm

:-) Hartz, he made to come up to me and beat me up but I started screaming desperate sobs of "HELP! HELP!" while laughing at him in his face, so he had to run away with stroller and wife in tow, because neighbors were hearing, not seeing in the dark. He never disturbed me again. He ran so fast I never had the time to give his wife my condolences for the tiny weewee she has to make do with. Oh well, next time...

One more while feeding the strays:

"Next time you try to stop my dog from attacking the strays, you're history".
"Says who?"
"I'll teach you a lesson: a man is ALWAYS stronger than a woman, so there's nothing you can do against me. I can do with you as I please".
"Actually, I may have overestimated my own strength; you may be right. Care if we try?" I stand up from the park bench, go to the middle of the road and start screaming "HELP! HELP! RAPE! TAKE YOUR ARMS OFF ME! STOP! STOP! DON'T! DON'T TOUCH ME!" to which he flees in horror, me running after him and laughing and saying "Tell me again if the man or the woman is the stronger?" His dog never attacked the cats again.

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15 Aug 2012, 2:43 pm

"If you're so smart, talented, and pretty, why aren't you married?" It makes it sound like my value rests upon whether I'm married or not, or that my talent isn't legitimate until a man recognizes it...

also pet names. Don't call me sweetie-pie, especially if you don't know me.


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15 Aug 2012, 3:39 pm

hartzofspace wrote:
1401b wrote:
-disclaimer: all instances of the word "you" is intended as purely fictional, and NOT intended to offend any persons, living, dead or reading this post, and is purely coincidental.
Or something.



I used to buy into the concepts, slander, and sophistry that haterz would regurgitate, apparently at random.
I really tested whether I was wrong or weird or awful. And I still do as a first Pavlovian response.
But there’s a fundamental logical flaw in automatically assuming everyone else is always right.
...If I can remember.

- ‘Boy somebody got excited.’ ... (wow, shoot down my balloon)
- ‘Why can’t you?’ ... (how should I know? why don’t you tell me about gravity, and if I can punch lame holes in your explanation does it mean you’ll suddenly float away?)
- ‘Relax.’ ... (gah, shut up)
- ‘You’re just making excuses.’ ... (you asked me for an answer, and I’m respecting you enough to dedicate valuable mental run-time to answer you, so try not to call me a liar too. If it was just that I didn’t want to do it, I would have said, “Because, I don’t want to do it.”)
- ‘Nobody else has a problem with it.’ ... (oh, I’m the only person on the planet that does, so I’m either the most bizarre freak ever, or a liar, huh?)
- ‘You make everything complicated.’ ... (*blink blink* I make the world complicated? The car you drive every day has about 30,000 parts that I didn’t make, but you think I’m the one causing it?)
- ‘You’re wrong.’ ... (“Well Mr. 14.01b, I don’t know what the right answer is, and have no guesses on even a wrong answer, but it can’t even possibly be what you said.”)
- ‘I’ve never had a problem.’ ... (or maybe you have, and are just too dumb to know it.)
- ‘You think too much.’ ... (or conversely…)
- ‘Boy you sure over-analyzed that.’ ... (but, you didn’t notice that I did that in approx. 2.61 seconds, so you’re implying I’m obsessive?)
- ‘You’re so negative.’ ... (or maybe I’m more optimistic than you can possibly understand because I already see solutions to everything up to this (“negative”) next point, which by the way, is about a mile farther down the road than the end of your nose.
- ‘You’re looking for problems!’ ... (duh, it’s called preparation, you might wanna go talk to a boy scout.)
- ‘You could just (insert lame idea here) ... (over the course of my life I’ve spent approx. 2 million times more on this than your 15 seconds of contemplation, so thanks for imagining neither I nor anyone else on the planet has thought of that already, AND for getting mad at me for not instantly re-devoting all my current & future life-resources pursuing your thoughtless platitude.

These are excellent examples! 8)

Here are some more:
You aren't alone; others are (doing, being, experiencing) that too. (Why should I care, and how does that impact me? :roll:)
Don't borrow trouble. (This in response to me trying to anticipate and prepare for all eventualities)
How do you think she or he felt? (I don't know. Try telling me how you know!)
Couldn't you see that they were just kidding? (Uh...NO!)
You are just too thin skinned! (Show me how to trade in for a thicker one then.)


Love your list, the one I hate is "What's Wrong" --- nothing is f*****g wrong, I am neither happy or sad, I am focused and your implication that there is something wrong, is currently the only going wrong in my life.

#STFUIHATEYOUANYWAYS



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16 Aug 2012, 1:26 pm

''Aren't you old enough to do that on your own?''
Yes, we're all old enough to do these things but that still doesn't mean we can't have company to do these things with!

''You're a tall person''
I'm only 5 foot 5! Quit making me feel like a giraffe and save that comment for someone who really IS tall!

''Why do you watch cartoons at your age?''
Some people like cartoons.

''You will look funny if you have your umbrella up if it's only spitting with rain''
I'm sure people have got more things to think about than whether a stupid girl has got her umbrella up on a drizzly day or not!

In fact, the words ''look'' and ''funny'' put together just wind me up. Whatever you wear, there will always be SOMEBODY who doesn't like it.


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18 Aug 2012, 11:18 pm

Summer_Twilight wrote:
"You're sister was taught to paddle her own oars (sp?) as much as possible and got herself out of special ed."

First off: what was your sister's disability? Plus different people are more independent @ 13 w/ possible AS I am more independent than my brother who possibly has ADHD and/or AS or was just a shy quirky historianite kid.

I hate it when my dad asks a question, I take a moment to think about my answer and he starts going "huh?" But really drawn out an annoying.

Oh, and my mothers cliches
If we all work together....
you are all a part of this family....
many hands....
I cant do all the work!

Sigh those annoy me!


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19 Aug 2012, 2:43 am

"what's stopping you from becoming rich like me?"
"why can't you just jerk yourself up by your bootstraps and get rich?"
"why can't you just play along?"
"anybody can succeed if they just put their minds to it."

and various other blather along those lines.