Anyone else never been to a nightclub?

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29 May 2007, 4:50 am

gwenevyn wrote:

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I'd rather meet nerdy boys at the library.

Note to self: Start frequenting local libraries again.... It wouldn't make sense for this to be unique to one individual...

Spread the word! :wink:

That would spoil the value.

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29 May 2007, 4:53 am

tcorrielus wrote:

Now speaking of night clubs, do any kinds of violence (e.g. stabbings, rape, shootings, brawls) happen there?

Would that make them more or less attractive?

Depends on the club. Some are cool,
some suck. Avoid bad music, and chances
are it'll be a safer place.

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29 May 2007, 4:58 am

calandale wrote:

gwenevyn wrote:

shadexiii wrote:

gwenevyn wrote:

I'd rather meet nerdy boys at the library.

Note to self: Start frequenting local libraries again.... It wouldn't make sense for this to be unique to one individual...

Spread the word! :wink:

That would spoil the value.

Or cause droves of intriguing bachelors to show up... preferably at my local branch. :heart:

Though it would get lame after a while and I am sure we can think of a hundred reasons why converting libraries into singles meet-ups would backfire.

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31 May 2007, 1:42 pm

tcorrielus wrote:

I like to dance but I've never had any thoughts about drinking alcohol unless I'm going to a wedding and I have NO intentions of getting hammered either.
Now speaking of night clubs, do any kinds of violence (e.g. stabbings, rape, shootings, brawls) happen there?

Yeah, that's unfortunately all too likely.

My local nightclub got closed down permanently because of an incident involving a fight between rival gangs (I think someone was actually shot during said fight). And even before that it was apparently a haven for knife-wielding buffoons.

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13 Mar 2009, 6:25 pm

Ive been to two nightclubs in my life.The last one was a complete disaster,I asked women to dance with me,but refused.I went with my bother and a cousin of ours in the San Francisco Bay Area.When I left the place,I was angry and demoralize and told myself never to go those places ever again.My brother and other acquaintances have told me to give it another try,but I still refuse to this day.Let me say this about nightclubs:it's an ego/cocky driven environment and people do stupid things.I don't a woman whose into nightclubs.

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13 Mar 2009, 11:03 pm

I have gone a few times in the past. I CANNOT stand the loud music and crowds

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13 Mar 2009, 11:14 pm

Being half deaf and Aspie... I don't like loud places, so no way. -.-

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13 Mar 2009, 11:48 pm

The poll does not cover all possiblities such as
"I used to o but no anymore"

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15 Mar 2009, 3:56 am

I've been a few times but I avoid them if I can. The proximity of so many people bothers me and the whiff of sexual desperation brings me down. :twisted:

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15 Mar 2009, 7:48 am

I've never been to one but I want to, I really like how the music makes the floor vibrate and the lights are amazing.
I like going to school discos and parties so a nightclub should be great.

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15 Mar 2009, 11:08 am

Nightclubs, no. Bars, yes. At bars it isn't considered creepy to sit by yourself, and I enjoy that. The atmosphere works for me. Not all the time, but sometimes. It's nice.

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15 Mar 2009, 4:21 pm

Last summer, I went to a nightclub for the first time, just to celebrate a friend's birthday there. It was called "Tequila Rain" which was located in Boston. It was also nice-looking and served great food, but the music there was so loud that I was struggling to listen to or follow people's conversations.

I'm not sure if I'll ever go to any nightclubs again in the future.

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15 Mar 2009, 8:56 pm

They're horrendous, the music is SO loud and everybody ditches you to go dance.

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16 Mar 2009, 7:10 pm

I will probably never go; probably because I'd be extremely uncomfortable and socially overwhelmed.

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