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How many friends do you have?
I have absolutely no friends 28%  28%  [ 16 ]
Just my pets 17%  17%  [ 10 ]
I have 1-3 deep friendships with people I feel understand me 40%  40%  [ 23 ]
I have 3+ friendships with people I feel understand me 16%  16%  [ 9 ]
Total votes : 58

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03 Nov 2020, 12:06 am

adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


I've done all of this in the 3D world. Starting a group where nobody turns up is quite frustrating.



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03 Nov 2020, 1:08 am

cyberdad wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


I've done all of this in the 3D world. Starting a group where nobody turns up is quite frustrating.

All the lonely people...
It's just so sad how we're all, all alone
Normal people and everyone else

I've had ideas of starting a non-profit called Eleanore Rigby, helping lonely people find lonely people to be less lonely



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03 Nov 2020, 1:35 am

hariboci wrote:
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Here's a joint.
Let's be friends. :mrgreen:


:D That reminds me when I was on a dating site and I got those silly messages "your so beautiful, let's be friends" and I was wondering for ages why guys need a girl to be pretty to be considered as friend :roll:


It was a "dating" site, hence the need for attractiveness.

If you haven't noticed, humans, most of them, are very superficial.
"Blame the evolutionary process." 8)



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03 Nov 2020, 1:41 am

adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


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3) Be Vulnerable
Close friends are what leads to personal discussions. But personal discussions are also what leads to close friends.


Well, I had my anal glands removed about a year ago. 8)
What? :scratch:
*Too* personal? 8O

I've always wanted a pet skunk with their anal glands removed just so that I could bring a few people over and for a split second pretend it was not my pet to see their reactions


Kinky. 8O
I'm up for it. :mrgreen:

But I can't fly out of Australia. :(

One of my flapping arms is injured. :mrgreen:

Perhaps after the pandemic. :wink:



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03 Nov 2020, 1:48 am

hariboci wrote:
Pepe wrote:
Here's a joint.
Let's be friends. :mrgreen:


:D That reminds me when I was on a dating site and I got those silly messages "your so beautiful, let's be friends" and I was wondering for ages why guys need a girl to be pretty to be considered as friend :roll:


Well, you are a little young for me, but if things don't pan out with adromedanblackhole, how about some coffee and dessert. I recommend the tiramisu cake. 8)

If things do pan out, how about a threesome? 8) :twisted:



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03 Nov 2020, 2:20 am

adromedanblackhole wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


I've done all of this in the 3D world. Starting a group where nobody turns up is quite frustrating.

All the lonely people...
It's just so sad how we're all, all alone
Normal people and everyone else

I've had ideas of starting a non-profit called Eleanore Rigby, helping lonely people find lonely people to be less lonely


Hopefully, it will focus on friendship, rather than romance. 8)



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03 Nov 2020, 9:48 am

adromedanblackhole wrote:
cyberdad wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


I've done all of this in the 3D world. Starting a group where nobody turns up is quite frustrating.

All the lonely people...
It's just so sad how we're all, all alone
Normal people and everyone else

I've had ideas of starting a non-profit called Eleanore Rigby, helping lonely people find lonely people to be less lonely

... ... ...

Your words reminded me of my recent post, here...Wherein i explained how i felt an emptiness in my chest, like a hole the depth of the Grand Canyon...That i felt the need to fill-up with many friends...And so, i surrounded myself with many, many friends...Not knowing back then that all along i only needed one, The One, my beloved husband...Since i have him, i no longer have such a feeling...By the way, i did not marry young, so i suffered such type of loneliness for decades...Of course, throughout that time, my congregation friends sustained me...Based on your (Aspie) experience, been misunderstood leads you all to feel lonely...In my experience, it was not misunderstanding but simply not been understood that led me to such a feeling of loneliness...Keep in mind that the world at large is made-up of only a few INTUITIVEs like me who see the world from a very different perspective...So, even when physically surrounded by friends, I would still feel lonely...Because i know this sad reality too well, i strive to UNDERSTAND my beloved (Aspie) husband...Because i never want him to feel lonely, ever again!! !...My advice to you all, find yourselves an intuitive friend until your soul-mate finds you...There is HOPE...And above all, draw closer to God...In my case, this made all the difference... :heart: :heart: :heart:



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03 Nov 2020, 1:14 pm

Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


Quote:
3) Be Vulnerable
Close friends are what leads to personal discussions. But personal discussions are also what leads to close friends.


Well, I had my anal glands removed about a year ago. 8)
What? :scratch:
*Too* personal? 8O

I've always wanted a pet skunk with their anal glands removed just so that I could bring a few people over and for a split second pretend it was not my pet to see their reactions


Kinky. 8O
I'm up for it. :mrgreen:

But I can't fly out of Australia. :(

One of my flapping arms is injured. :mrgreen:

Perhaps after the pandemic. :wink:

...
okay but you know I'm talking about an actual skunk yes?



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04 Nov 2020, 4:47 am

adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


Quote:
3) Be Vulnerable
Close friends are what leads to personal discussions. But personal discussions are also what leads to close friends.


Well, I had my anal glands removed about a year ago. 8)
What? :scratch:
*Too* personal? 8O

I've always wanted a pet skunk with their anal glands removed just so that I could bring a few people over and for a split second pretend it was not my pet to see their reactions


Kinky. 8O
I'm up for it. :mrgreen:

But I can't fly out of Australia. :(

One of my flapping arms is injured. :mrgreen:

Perhaps after the pandemic. :wink:

...
okay but you know I'm talking about an actual skunk yes?



You see my avatar, right?
What makes you think that isn't the real me? 8O



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04 Nov 2020, 2:35 pm

Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


Quote:
3) Be Vulnerable
Close friends are what leads to personal discussions. But personal discussions are also what leads to close friends.


Well, I had my anal glands removed about a year ago. 8)
What? :scratch:
*Too* personal? 8O

I've always wanted a pet skunk with their anal glands removed just so that I could bring a few people over and for a split second pretend it was not my pet to see their reactions


Kinky. 8O
I'm up for it. :mrgreen:

But I can't fly out of Australia. :(

One of my flapping arms is injured. :mrgreen:

Perhaps after the pandemic. :wink:

...
okay but you know I'm talking about an actual skunk yes?



You see my avatar, right?
What makes you think that isn't the real me? 8O

So even your avatar isn't an actual skunk
You are a cartoon...



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04 Nov 2020, 3:43 pm

adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
For real guys, have a read of this article and take to heart that I consider many of you here my friends because I understand the feeling of being an outsider to humanity and a lot of the pain we all feel.
https://www.bakadesuyo.com/2017/02/how- ... -an-adult/


Quote:
3) Be Vulnerable
Close friends are what leads to personal discussions. But personal discussions are also what leads to close friends.


Well, I had my anal glands removed about a year ago. 8)
What? :scratch:
*Too* personal? 8O

I've always wanted a pet skunk with their anal glands removed just so that I could bring a few people over and for a split second pretend it was not my pet to see their reactions


Kinky. 8O
I'm up for it. :mrgreen:

But I can't fly out of Australia. :(

One of my flapping arms is injured. :mrgreen:

Perhaps after the pandemic. :wink:

...
okay but you know I'm talking about an actual skunk yes?



You see my avatar, right?
What makes you think that isn't the real me? 8O

So even your avatar isn't an actual skunk
You are a cartoon...


Whoa! 8O
Where are the Politically Correct Police when you need them?
Cartoon discrimination is not permitted on this website. 8)



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04 Nov 2020, 6:22 pm

Okay f*****g fine
I guess I'm down to LITERALLY NO ONE IN MY LIFE IS AN ACTUAL FRIEND

Not even one

The way people who I thought were friends actually respond to me is clearly they're just tolerating me.

I send an old friend of mine a few texts just to let her know I value her friendship. It starts out nice and she shifts to more or less tell me that the past is the past and we can't dwell on it?!?!?! What in the actual goddamn mother f**k? I'm just trying to do the be vulnerable thing and let people know you value them and that's when she decides to throw in a little off-hand remark basically saying we were friends once upon a time but now...

Seriously no one is trustworthy. No one has a heart. Humanity is just an evolved predator that is kind to its young for evolutionary purposes but no one gives an absolute s**t about you.

And IIIIIIIIIIIII lack empathy?!?!?!?!



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04 Nov 2020, 6:49 pm

Hey! We are all your friends here :D

Chill Jill....



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04 Nov 2020, 6:50 pm

adromedanblackhole wrote:
I've had ideas of starting a non-profit called Eleanore Rigby, helping lonely people find lonely people to be less lonely


Good idea, there's also plenty of NTs who are lonely but are too stubborn to admit they crave human contact.



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04 Nov 2020, 7:11 pm

adromedanblackhole wrote:
Okay f*****g fine
I guess I'm down to LITERALLY NO ONE IN MY LIFE IS AN ACTUAL FRIEND

Not even one

The way people who I thought were friends actually respond to me is clearly they're just tolerating me.

I send an old friend of mine a few texts just to let her know I value her friendship. It starts out nice and she shifts to more or less tell me that the past is the past and we can't dwell on it?!?!?! What in the actual goddamn mother f**k? I'm just trying to do the be vulnerable thing and let people know you value them and that's when she decides to throw in a little off-hand remark basically saying we were friends once upon a time but now...

Seriously no one is trustworthy. No one has a heart. Humanity is just an evolved predator that is kind to its young for evolutionary purposes but no one gives an absolute s**t about you.

And IIIIIIIIIIIII lack empathy?!?!?!?!


I spit on humanity. Pahtooie! :eew:
At least you have your faithful skunk to warm your feet, and cyberdude to stimulate you intellectually. :mrgreen:
Want a back rub? 8)



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04 Nov 2020, 8:35 pm

Pepe wrote:
adromedanblackhole wrote:
Okay f*****g fine
I guess I'm down to LITERALLY NO ONE IN MY LIFE IS AN ACTUAL FRIEND

Not even one

The way people who I thought were friends actually respond to me is clearly they're just tolerating me.

I send an old friend of mine a few texts just to let her know I value her friendship. It starts out nice and she shifts to more or less tell me that the past is the past and we can't dwell on it?!?!?! What in the actual goddamn mother f**k? I'm just trying to do the be vulnerable thing and let people know you value them and that's when she decides to throw in a little off-hand remark basically saying we were friends once upon a time but now...

Seriously no one is trustworthy. No one has a heart. Humanity is just an evolved predator that is kind to its young for evolutionary purposes but no one gives an absolute s**t about you.

And IIIIIIIIIIIII lack empathy?!?!?!?!


I spit on humanity. Pahtooie! :eew:
At least you have your faithful skunk to warm your feet, and cyberdude to stimulate you intellectually. :mrgreen:
Want a back rub? 8)

I always need a backrub
I could literally spend the entire day getting a back rub and it would not be enough
My spine is made of steel, I am perpetually uncomfortable