Wow this discussion makes me feel a lot better. I'm 26 and finally started getting my license this year. I used to play a lot of racing games on the Xbox and I think that helped (though I used to speed a lot). I'd have my license by now if my learners license hadn't expired after 1 year, so I have to go write the written test again tomorrow.
I drive much better in my friend's car than with the instructor, my friend just sits there and unless I do something obviously wrong (like move into the wrong lane), he doesn't say much. The instructor is constantly talking, and the hardest thing is he strikes up these conversations while I'm driving. I can't even cook and keep up with a conversation, much less drive.
I think it's true what people are saying here, that learning to drive is a typical "milestone" among NTs but for me, I grew up in the city with a really good transit system, it costs a lot of $ for lessons, so I figured it wasn't worth it until now. I find now that I'm dating, not being able to drive is looked down upon a lot by guys; also when someone needs you to go park the car while they run in, it's good to actually be legally able to do so lol.