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One of my semi friends who may have aspergers or something on the autism spectrum and has no friends. Also no one likes her at all. She has been called immature and weird a couple a times behind her back. I am friends with her, but my other friends don't want me to be friends with her.

If You want to be her friend then do stay her friend!
Your other friends have no right to decide who you are friend with and not.
If they have problem with your friendship with her then you need to be the one to show good example to both parts.

Do not follow this example I have seen on TV:

A guy is a friend with a "looser" his other friends is bullying. He is constantly drawn between these two friendships.
As soon as the tough guys turns up he emediately rejects the weak friend. Once they tells him to hit the "looser" in the stomach.
If he dont do it they will freeze him out too.

NEVER EVER give after such requests your other friends might tell you!! !
Then you will be better off with the lonely girl than them but the best is to keep both friendships without them destroying each others
but for this YOU need to be strong!

Tell them that if they want to be your friend then they have to accept that you want to have her as friend too
If they are true and good friends to you, as you are to her, then they accept it.

To have you as a friend means a lot to her as she have hard to get friends.

Good Luck!

If you love her the way she is, then definitely stay friends with her. Is she a good friend to you? Because I'm not the most popular person either, but I'm loyal, and a true friend is really hard to find these days. So if you get along with her, don't worry about what your friends think about her. That's them. Be yourself, and if they don't like you for hanging out with her, then they're not your real friends.

If you are her friend, and enjoy her as a person, then why not stay her friend?

You did say that no one likes her though, but if you like her as a person then why not stay her friend.