sinsboldly wrote:
The first time I heard about Asperger's Syndrome it was a segment of a National Public Radio program about a man whose son was diagnosed. The father was castigating himself because he was ashamed that his son was one of 'those' people, thinking himself a bad father and a bad person for having such feelings about the 'other.' As he was getting therapy for his son he was diagnosed as Asperger's, too. He was astounded and astonished and realized he was profoundly prejudgiced even though he was one.
it must be like waking up one morning and finding yourself another ethnic group or of a different sexual orientation. All your certainties -poof- gone.
There's a stigma with being called autistic. I have read comments on forums in which people say "you're not autistic..." about another person because of that person's display of a talent. Exploration of this issue is discouraged. Any examination of it is treated with fear that something damning might be found, and that anything found would preclude one from being seen as worthy or capable of participation in various endeavors. Comments from doctors and other people in the community that hinted at the possibility that I could be autistic were treated as a major insult, something to be covered up, something others might mistake for being "ret*d". Until just a few years ago, I believed that I couldn't be autistic because I could talk when I was a kid.
Now that I think about it, one of my childhood doctors made comments about how I had a different kind of mind, and that I will find my place doing something probably beyond his reach. Many doctors don't see any benefit in diagnosing someone who is high functioning. My parents did frame things in a positive way, though, and their high expectations were probably a deciding factor in how my life turned out.
And no, I don't think a world without NTs would be a good one. All kinds are needed. I imagine dating would be even more difficult, as the NT skills of the other person are needed even more by us to bridge the gap.
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A boy and his dog can go walking
A boy and his dog sometimes talk to each other
A boy and a dog can be happy sitting down in the woods on a log
But a dog knows his boy can go wrong
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