This guy, I don't know whoever he is, the root of my self-confidence.
When I look into his face, I feel better.
1) If I will be in a planned social situation as a must (makes me feel irritated) such as using public transportation, going to place never been before, talking to people never met before, waiting in a line, going to a governmental institute or hosptial... I look to the photo of this guy
2) If I feel depressed about my negative-sides I look to the photo of this guy
3) If I feel emberassed , not feeling a part of the society I simply look to the photo of this guy
Then I say to myself,
You are much more intelligent than him
You are looking to life from a completely different perspective, and he don't even know the meaning of perspective
You are more educated than him
You can evalutate things logically, and this guy probably have a brain that can't work everytime.
You are much more better than this silly guy. If he can do the things easily that I stated in 1),2),3), I can do much better, because I am BETTER than him.
AFTER THE COMPARISON, A CONFIDENT FEELING!! !
And my quesrions;
1) Do you have a similar trait that make you feel better?
2) Is the thing that I'm doing wrong, and causes me to have other problems, or I currently have problems?
3) What do you think about the guy on the photo?
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I've used my foreign language in the message above, so please inform me about lingual mistakes that I've possibly made in there!