Friends moving on

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Does anyone find that just as you are becoming attached or friendly with someone they leave the area so you can't continue the friendship?

This puts me off having friends because whats the point wasting effort striking up friendships with people only to find they move on?

I found that as well. I don't make friends anymore...

It REALLY hurts when that happens.

Yeah, I've failed to keep in touch with my High School friends. I'd by lying if I said I didn't miss them every once in awhile.

With fostercare you get use to it rather quickly. It really hurts when those who you have know all dissapear in one go, and at the same time you know how much you are hurting them.

tis very frustrating.


jammie

It's human to expect good things to last forever, and bad things to end instantly. If things don't end up like that, we think we have reasons to get upset och depressed.

The fact is that it's an absolutely inevitable turn of events. Everything that has a beginning has an end. Regardless a friendship turns sour today or after ten years, it's bound to happen. No matter how long you hold on, eventually the person will die from old age, there's nothing you can do about it.

Be happy that you got to experience the bonding and the getting to know each other, aswell as the actual period of friendship and respect, and even got to go through the separating phase. What more can you ask than to be a part of the whole cycle?

Everything conditioned is unsatisfactory.