New Friends Scare Me

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I'm sure you've all seen my posts about people who I talk to and write over the internet. and I havent had much luck with that. Recently someone over the internet invited me to talk with her. I established that I have no interest in her romantically and it's just to conversate. I also asked her a couple of questions and it seems she chose the ones she wanted to answer and didnt answer the others. idk, maybe i asked too many questions. This is where I start to worry. maybe she forgot to answer because it was too many for her, or maybe she just didnt want to. They were questions to get to know the person. She invited me to talk, so I dont feel as worried. Idk what to do. I hate this.
I dont really like messaging people over the internet because stuff like this happens.

relax. breathe in, breathe out. Meditation is actually good for people with "aspers". Learn to let things have a natural flow. (which is hard to do over a computer)

Hmm, 'Aspers' . . . I actually think I prefer that to 'Aspie'. I hate the term 'aspie' - it makes me think of some sort of benevolent, figure-of-fun sasquatch, trundling about in the garden.

(Sorry I don't have any practical advice regarding the matter in hand . . . online conversations can be really ambiguous. The worst is when they just start ignoring you).

yeah, "aspers" is what I'm refering to us in short for their diagnosis.

Yea I've mad up my mind to not respond to this person when they respond to me. depending on how straight forward he/she. I'm just gonna read the message and decide if this person is worth me putting effort into writing. Because I'm been through this, where I would literally write the person "why arent you replying" or "why are you skipping certain questions I asked". while they simply read the message and laugh at how frustrated I am. No way.

But I still want to talk to this person, but I am just going to see how interested this person is in me. And interested I mean, how much they wanna talk. that's it. if i dont feel that they wanna talk im just gonna ignore the message because its not going anywhere