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jamesongerbil
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01 Aug 2010, 9:51 pm

Any one like Aah! Real Monsters?
Love that show.
Anyway....

Blegh, facebook. Is there any way to connect with someone you've been in physical proximity with for years but never really talk to?
He friend'd me. Interesting person, and I wanna communicate. There is only one teensy tiny problem. I don't know how! But also, I don't want to force it.

Has anyone else been successful at doing this sort of thing?



hutchscott
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01 Aug 2010, 10:13 pm

Are you interested in him romantically, or to just be friends?

There is a certain Facebook ettiquet about these things. Not forcing the issue is an extremely good idea. Don't comment on every post he makes, or even click "like". In Facebook land, that is considered stalking. Comment on one thing, then give it a rest for a bit.

I learned the hard way. I'm a man, and my friend was a girl. She felt I was stalking her and seeking to be romantically involved. She sent me nasty e-mail telling me never to contact her ever again in any way. yikes.



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03 Aug 2010, 7:51 pm

Oh no, that's terrible!

Thanks for informing me. No, I'm just interested in being friends, i guess. It says on my profile that I'm engaged, but who knows what ideas people could get.