Need advice about making friends in a large university...

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EterPhoe
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16 Aug 2010, 11:22 pm

So I'm going from my tiny community college to a large university in January. I'm kind of stressing about how to make and keep friends there because nobody I know well is going to be there. I'll basically be a black slate socially, and I probably won't have a roommate for at least one semester. >_< I really want to cultivate a large social circle.

Any advice will be hugely appreciated. <3



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16 Aug 2010, 11:35 pm

Just find people with a common interest and the rest will be easy.



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16 Aug 2010, 11:48 pm

Yeah, I know this university has a huge number of organizations based around pretty much every recreational activity you can imagine, and a "club fest" where they are all on display. I just am wondering how to approach these people about joining without making myself look like a fool. >_<



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17 Aug 2010, 7:14 pm

The club fest sounds like a perfect way of striking up conversations with people. Just get talking with people about the club's subject and take it from there. You won't be likely to look like a fool, conversations about the clubs are what people are going to expect. :D



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17 Aug 2010, 7:44 pm

you wont look like a fool, at those things theyre usually the ones approaching you, trying to 'sell' their club and get people to join up. you'll probably have to do very little



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18 Aug 2010, 7:32 pm

Yeah just get out and about, ether way or even failing that your bound to make at least a few friends in no time.