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How often do you go out? (excluding family and alone)
Several times a week 17%  17%  [ 13 ]
Once a week 14%  14%  [ 11 ]
A few times a month 29%  29%  [ 23 ]
I don't go out at all. 40%  40%  [ 31 ]
Total votes : 78

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20 Aug 2010, 2:24 pm

Don't you get tired of hearing NT friends talking about how often they go out with their friends, like once every Friday night and blah. How about you guys?



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20 Aug 2010, 2:28 pm

OMG! Yes *Goes to cry in a corner* Always on FB one of my friends "Going out with so and so tonight going to have fun!" OMG! What happen!! !! !! !! !! !! Me her use to be close (back when she was 11 or 12) but now she's going on 20 I tried reconnecting (Hey lets hang out etc.) but it was busy/boyfriend/work etc. :-( I miss her! I want my 11 or 12 year old friend back!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! ! (I don't care! about driving her mom can take us like the old days! SHEESH!) *cries*



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20 Aug 2010, 2:43 pm

That's pretty much most of my friends on FB. I don't ever get these conversations. If I do it's usually "Hi how are you?" and "So when do you want to go out?".



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20 Aug 2010, 2:45 pm

Once a week. Usually friday.


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20 Aug 2010, 2:48 pm

Yes I tend to get tired hearing that kind of things from some friends at university so when its done by random people on fb its even worse.


I dont have a settled number of outings a week-moth whenever somebody calls me to do something I like or whenever I see something I want to do I do it.



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20 Aug 2010, 2:59 pm

My last "date" was June 9, 2006. It turned out that the girl's father didnt want her going to a concert alone, she used me. before that my last "date" was in May 0f 2002.


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20 Aug 2010, 5:46 pm

Oh, out with friends - I thought you meant how often do you leave the house, which is about once a week.


I'd have to have friends to be able to go out with them, but even when I did have friends, we never went anywhere, just hung out around the house listening to music. :drunken:

Well, we did make occasional runs to the liquor store. Does that count? :wink:



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20 Aug 2010, 6:35 pm

Excluding family and going alone, then I don't go out.



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20 Aug 2010, 6:46 pm

The amount of times that I go out depends from day to day, week to week. I have been known to go out more than once a day (tomorrow is a good example: the farmers market in the morning, a work related picnic/potluck at noon hour, and a open house for a cousin who graduated from college/ and is showing off her home that was remodeled after it flooded two years ago). I can have a couple of things in a day, and turn around and not have anything go on for a few weeks. It all depends what is going on at church, political activities, other volunteering, or plain what is going on in the community. It's pretty variable for me.



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20 Aug 2010, 8:02 pm

An average week, I "go out" about 3-4 days a week. To be honest though, it's usually to go see my girlfriend (Friday, Saturday, Sunday, and one day during the week).


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20 Aug 2010, 9:36 pm

Very rarely. The only time I leave my house is for work, appointments, errands or school. Other than that I really don't do much of anything socially. I have gone to the beach a few times and I did go on vacation but I did all those things alone.


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21 Aug 2010, 9:57 am

Sadly enough, I consider my boyfriend as family, so I guess not at all. I don't have any friends in person, and the few I do is on such a rare occasion that it isn't even monthly! heh


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21 Aug 2010, 10:13 am

Almost never (maby 1-2 times a year). Most of my friends aren't that interested in "going out" either.


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21 Aug 2010, 12:09 pm

I have a couple of appointments with friends a week. :) Then I spend most Wednesday with my boyfriend and sped the weekend at his place. Once a month or so I go downtown with my friends and/or boyfriend.

In my eyes: I'm a terribly busy woman. I have school every day from 8:30 to 15:30, which doesn't leave me much time to socialize.



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21 Aug 2010, 7:26 pm

I go out, three times a week.


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21 Aug 2010, 8:06 pm

Once a week is the most accurate. Sometimes more, sometimes less. (If you are using the word 'go out' like 'socially interact with people').