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rocknrollslc
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14 Dec 2010, 11:08 pm

ugh. formal occasion at a nice restaurant, all dressed up...me and 9 other people, 4 of whom i rarely talk to who do not understand me and have made no attempt to, and two of those four i do not trust. also, 2 of whom i dont even really know and never talk to.

f*** me running.



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14 Dec 2010, 11:25 pm

You could try doing something under the table then?

Make yourself a tent then, yeah?



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14 Dec 2010, 11:57 pm

I hate dinners with a lot of people. They make me feel very uncomfortable.



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15 Dec 2010, 1:34 am

So don't go. Easy enough :D



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15 Dec 2010, 11:39 am

:roll: I know the feeling. Got an invite to my uncle's huge birthday party coming up in Jan. It's going to be in restaurant. Hopefully mom can work that day and that means we don't go. Any time we have this family get togethers there are certain family members that just ignore me or look down me. If it makes you uncomfortable then don't go. I ONLY go just to see my only living grandma.


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