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as408
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04 Apr 2011, 10:30 pm

How high does my social skill need to be before I can say "it's their problem. they're missing out."? Imagine a scale of 1-100. I feel if I'm below 50 (which I still am), then people have a great reason to dislike me. If I'm 50 or higher, then "it's their problem" that they don't like me.

My goal is to be as like-able as the average NT. I find it hard to accept myself if I'm any less.

Any thoughts on this?



sgrannel
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05 Apr 2011, 12:50 am

If they're missing out, then what are they missing out on? One might concentrate on building wealth and a comfortable lifestyle, thereby having something to offer, something that others place themselves in a position of missing out on if they reject you. What other things might one have to offer?


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