Unwritten Rules/Social Cues

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Ok so we all know aspies have problems with knowing the "rules" and reading "social cues". I consciously realized today after talking to a friend: that were suppose to know what to do and what not to do even if its not nessarily a "rule" or they arent specifically implying that this. Like your suppose to get a sense of them...and its implied based on the vibe they give off whats ok and whats not ok.

This is getting so complicated!! !

i hear ya
but a book with all the rules listed in it would be impenetrable.

^^^ That's not necessarily a bad thing. In some situations, such as a firefight, a bulletproof book could come quite in handy.

But Im saying that things are getting complicated when 1 thing is fine for 1 person in but not fine for another person. Sometimes the person doesnt even say or hint to it but your still suppose to know? Its like how the f**k do I read your brain?