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its hard to be with my siblings...like talk to them and stuff. idk why its just so hard. sometimes my brother talks to me and asks me stuff but i dont get what he asks...i dont know what he means and then he just keeps asking or gets mad sometimes that i dont say anything. and im kinda scared a little to....that they say bad stuff about me. cause sometimes i said no to something or something happened and then i went downstairs and i hear them calling me a bich and all this stuff to my mom or dad.


like today i didnt want to eat because i wanted to sit in my chair...but my sister was in it.(i just like sitting in the same one everyday....idk why im just used to it i always sit there...so....idk why she took it..) but i didnt want to ask her cause i was scared she was gonna go to my mom later and be saying stuff about me. cause it happened alot that i go down and i hear her talking....

i mean is it a bich to be like that? i dont really care about changes like haveing to change things that much...but i like to have SOME things the same...like a chair i sit in or something...idk just makes me feel better. and yeah i just dont like hearing im a bich and all that so much.

My little sister used to get whatever she wanted with tears. It really bugged me that she could turn them on at will, and that my parents fell for it every time.

It takes time, but in my life I've usually done better when I've exercised as much maturity and flexibility as I could. Whether I won or lost the individual conflict, I always felt better about myself when all was said and done.

Rules of the family

*Siblings suck in trust...never EVER trust them unless you are ready to go down
*If you have a disagreement, go to mom and dad first....if you try and resolve it, it WILL go awry
*It doesn't matter if you are a boy or girl, if you are someone they consider "strong" or "bigger" you don't lay a finger on siblings or you are in trouble
*Try to avoid interaction with the troublesome siblings
*If they are bugging you, try to ignore it at first, if you can't, get parents
*Know that THEY WIN if you are annoyed, try and win them, its a different change of pace