What should I do now?

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A couple months ago, I started hanging out with a few people, and after I realized I was being used by them and that they were very gang-member-types, I stopped hanging out with them and started ignoring all their communications. It's been a few months I've been doing this, and I'm sure they've got the message by now.

However, there was another girl, a friend of a friend of the person I met all the other people through. We only ever met two-three times.

But, a couple hours ago, I got a call from her. I was asleep, so she asked me if I was, and then she, well, said bye. Neither I or her said that we'll call later, so I really do not know if I should do that.

Also, I've been doing a lot of work to ignore these people, and while she was not the reason I stopped hanging out with these people, she was one of their friends, so it's likely she might have been used as a tool to figure out if I was actively ignoring these people.

I'm lost, and I really have no idea what could be or what to do at this point. If I want to stop ignoring one of these people, but only one, how do I do that? What excuse or explanation could I use?

Anyone?

Just say you're busy. Don't go into detail. Unless the girl is someone special to you, I'd leave her alone.

Nah, she doesn't mean much to me. However, I do not want to be lonely and miserable, I want some friends. Which is why I'm really confused about what I should do.