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christopher_m
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06 Aug 2006, 6:01 am

Hi Girls,

My name is Chris. I live in Dunedin, New Zealand and would love to make some female friends out there. Please feel free to text message me and say hello or email me here.

I am 29, I feel very lonely :( , very depressed :( , and would like to talk to some girls to keep me from my lonliness. I need some support at this moment because I am very sad.

I feel very lonely without a girl and when each day goes past I miss someone special in my life. :cry:

Please show me that you love me and message me back. Please give me some kisses as well. I need someone to brighten my day. I just need some affection.

Chris, :heart:



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06 Aug 2006, 6:34 pm

Christopher, why don't you post an ad on Aspie Affection?

http://www.aspieaffection.com



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06 Aug 2006, 6:55 pm

Out of curiosity, why do you only want girls to talk to? This is the FRIENDSHIP board, not the ROMANCE board. If you're looking for friends and people to talk to, surely males should be just as acceptable?


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08 Aug 2006, 1:59 pm

i wish i had the confidence to "just ask" like you do, publically. but yeah, good luck man.



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25 Aug 2006, 3:04 pm

Wow...you are desprate aren't you 8O



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26 Aug 2006, 9:19 am

So...is it cold in Dunedin??? I have heard from my kiwi cousin's that it is the coldest winter since...I don't know when...you can pm me if you want to. I live in Australia, where it is getting very warm now... :roll:


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26 Aug 2006, 1:30 pm

I'll talk to you, big boy.



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26 Aug 2006, 1:40 pm

I love topics like these; makes me feel better about myself.


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26 Aug 2006, 5:03 pm

Well, I tend to befriend men more easily than I befriend women, and minus the ":heart:" I might have thought he was in a similar situation... but I admit, that post seems over the top, I almost wonder if he is serious?



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27 Aug 2006, 12:11 am

Already wearing glasses and has started to shave his palms. I think he's serious.


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27 Aug 2006, 7:54 am

Hey ladies, watch out for this guy. Because I posted in his thread he PMed me asking for "more information." I replied that I am married and that the reason I befriend males more readily than females is because I was vicously bullied in school by females but not males. Ever since I have had difficulty making female friendships.

Well when our charming gentleman here was informed I am married he replied in a PM: "Go f u c k yourself."

So take heed ladies, not only is he crazy, but he doesn't really want FRIENDS, either.

Go shave your palms, Christopher M. :?



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27 Aug 2006, 8:38 am

I'll second that en_una_isla

Christopher_m is one seriously twisted puppy. The kind that bites you, then humps your leg, then bites you.

I'm not surprised at the desperateness given the courtship tactics.



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27 Aug 2006, 9:34 am

I tend to get on with females better than I do guys, but i wouldn't say it's got anything to do with previous bullying. I think that it's more to do with the fact that my peers(guys my own age) find it a lot easier to spot the obvious differences.
Other age groups/females don't automatically realise that I'm different, they always put it down to the fact that I'm male/younger/older, therefore giving me some leeway with my behaviour/making the effort to get to know me. Getting to know me is always the best way to overcome something like aspergers, cuz we're not bad people, just misunderstood.



Oh yeh, on topic, have a bit more patience CHRIS!! !! !



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27 Aug 2006, 2:42 pm

christopher_m wrote:
Hi Girls,

My name is Chris. I live in Dunedin, New Zealand and would love to make some female friends out there. Please feel free to text message me and say hello or email me here.

I am 29, I feel very lonely :( , very depressed :( , and would like to talk to some girls to keep me from my lonliness. I need some support at this moment because I am very sad.

I feel very lonely without a girl and when each day goes past I miss someone special in my life. :cry:

Please show me that you love me and message me back. Please give me some kisses as well. I need someone to brighten my day. I just need some affection.

Chris, :heart:


Listen, Chris
You don't get girls to talk to you or hang out with you by saying 'I want girls! I want girls!' :shameonyou:
Most of them will think you're an as*hole who's only out for sex and'll want to stay away from you.
And when you say you want girls because you're lonely and depressed, most people will assume your'e lonely and depressed for a good reason (like, say, they'll think maybe you're a former convict or you come from a bad upbringing).
I may not know everything, and I'm probably not qualified to give relationship advice, but I can tell you that I've noticed from observation that the guys who're most likely to get girls are those who approach them in a casual, friendly way, not those who troll the internet for 'female companions', write in personals ads, and shout on the loudspeaker about how much they want to date any woman available.
Think on it. Think on it long and hard.
:heart: Love, me :heart:



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27 Aug 2006, 5:10 pm

Bravo Yupa ! ! That is the kind of reactions i would expect from a site as this one. When we make a "faux pas" we should be helped, not laughed at...



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27 Aug 2006, 9:43 pm

Dear Moderator,

Help!

It appears that I am getting a string of defamatory comments related to this initial post I put on the forum.

Yupa and others comments on here totally unacceptable and uncalled for and I did not ask for them to be put on here. Please can you delete all these defamatory comments about me and warn them to leave me alone.

Thanks, Chris