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17 Aug 2011, 8:49 am

My husband is a NT he as lot of cousins
but lately they have started ignoring him
the main reason behind it is me....they find me odd and different

I feel bad my husband is ignored..

Does this happen with other married Aspie's



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17 Aug 2011, 10:19 am

I used to believe that my ex-wife's lack of popularity had to do with me, when it may have had more to do with her alcohol-fueled bipolar disorder.

Are you certain that his own behavior is not contributing to his decline in popularity?


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17 Aug 2011, 10:27 am

Unless it bothers him I wouldn't worry. You may be blaming yourself for something that isn't your fault.


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17 Aug 2011, 12:06 pm

Fnord wrote:
I used to believe that my ex-wife's lack of popularity had to do with me, when it may have had more to do with her alcohol-fueled bipolar disorder.

Are you certain that his own behavior is not contributing to his decline in popularity?

He is very lovable, helpful, social person everybody likes him and im a damp squib compared to him and people want to run away as soon as they see me
and nowadays more and more of this stuff is happpening



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17 Aug 2011, 12:09 pm

pollyfinite wrote:
Unless it bothers him I wouldn't worry. You may be blaming yourself for something that isn't your fault.

im sure it hurts him a lot within though he is not directly telling or blaming me... :cry: