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mikh07
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18 Oct 2006, 3:00 am

I'm not really sure how to react when someone gets mad at me since it happens so rarely... I know I should apologize for it sometime but I don't know when to. This friend is someone I know only over the internet and I'm not really sure how to react.. the last time he got mad at me I kinda like.. gave a very thorough apology but was really pissed off that time. This time, hes just mad about a comment I made.

But yeah, he logged off before we could elaborate about it.. he made a point to tell me bye and "grow up" before he left. I think he might have given me a few seconds to tell him 'later' or something but I was kinda dismayed and didn't react fast enough I guess. Crap!!



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18 Oct 2006, 6:03 am

Sometimes, someone at work will get mad at me and they choose to deal with it by not talking to me, which can be quite refreshing. In 10-14 days their brain chemestry changes and things are back to normal. Give your friend 10 days to 2 weeks to cool off.


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18 Oct 2006, 2:53 pm

is he Aspergers?
Sometimes people don't know Aspergers very well.


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19 Oct 2006, 1:13 am

MrMark wrote:
Sometimes, someone at work will get mad at me and they choose to deal with it by not talking to me, which can be quite refreshing. In 10-14 days their brain chemestry changes and things are back to normal. Give your friend 10 days to 2 weeks to cool off.
wow, seriously? i just sent him a sorry msg over myspace... But yeah, I'm usually forgiven for something a little sooner than 2 weeks :lol: - but thats something good to know

He doesn't have AS but hes more or less aware of whats wrong with me and I've known him for like 3 years now so..

Oh and Thanks :D