advice to shy people

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if someone approaches you three times without you approaching them, and you are interested in meeting that person, you have an obligation to approach them on your own. otherwise they will most likely think you dont want to talk with them or find it really unpleasant to pull teeth.

theres almost a 0% chance of rejection if a person approaches you three times

i dont reallly understand what you mean

but no one ever approaches me because of my looks-and when I move near them they turn away and even though I am autistic I get the meaning of that action.I was at a picnic a few moths ago and it was a potluck and brought some nice desserts and a friend brought stuff and I went there and the only reason I talked to any one was because they had to sit down next to me to eat their dessert and peromptly got away from me-at the end of the party as we were leaving the person that went with me as we were leaving the host barely said thank you for coming to me and not even a handshake but the person who went with me who was better looking he says to him "oh I have to hug my guests to thank them for coming" and he gets a hug-talk about a kick to the teeth.

I've never pulled teeth but I doubt I'd enjoy it.