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EphraimB
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14 Feb 2016, 7:08 pm

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14 Feb 2016, 7:43 pm

You got a bit over attached and scared him.

You could try giving him a call but don't expect any good result.

Could you make new friends at a club?



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14 Feb 2016, 7:55 pm

But (name removed) also has Aspergers Syndrome and i'm only comfortable with people that have Aspergers Syndrome and there aren't any other Aspie teens that I know of or that live near me


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14 Feb 2016, 8:36 pm

Try telling him you are not gay

(Sorry to be blunt but this is what he is thinking)

There might be some more aspies that you are not aware of in say a local gaming club or similar thing



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14 Feb 2016, 8:44 pm

How should I contact him now? I'm very worried!


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14 Feb 2016, 9:28 pm

Other than calling, do you know his YouTube username or email?



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15 Feb 2016, 11:11 am

Yes


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16 Feb 2016, 6:20 am

I can understand why you were clingy like that because it sounds like you are lonely because hardly anyone understands your circumstances. So when he reached out you felt secure. I have been in that boat before and when the other party lost their interest I lashed out.

As far as making friends goes, do you have any skills in art?
What are your interests? You might consider joining a club or picking a favorite teacher.



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16 Feb 2016, 8:46 am

I'm only interested in Technology


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21 Feb 2016, 4:45 pm

Maybe you ought to see if they have any groups or clubs revolving around technology along with getting into a physics club because they are into technology too. You could even learn some skills now that will be essential for the work world later on.

Meanwhile it sounds like working on your social skills might be good for because I know two sources where their males.

1. Improve your social skills.com by Daniel Wendler
2. Asperger Experts



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07 Mar 2016, 3:32 pm

The problem is that i'm only comfortable being friends with Aspies. I'm not interested in anyone that is NT.


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07 Mar 2016, 5:13 pm

I know how you feel, just try meeting as many people as possible and you will find a new friend



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14 Mar 2016, 6:54 pm

It's very hard to find Aspies. Is there any easier way to find Jewish teenage male aspies that are into technology?


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My personality type: INTJ-T


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14 Mar 2016, 8:17 pm

It's very difficult, the only thing I can think of is social clubs for techie subjects