Asperger Goal of Expaning Social Circle & Building a Net

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As the New Years begin my goal was to build a network of friends, acquaintances , colleagues and much more. I am usually precevied in NT minds as a weirdo,even if try to act normal. NT call me a weird character, and find me very odd. All my friends are either weird or not normal according to society standards. I try to HUMAN CONTACT as much possible in the past years, and just kept to my self, and only had 1 close friend in my social circle. This year my goals is force myself to be more outgoing with other. Because having social circle and networking with people as amazing benefits, and his one the ingredients to success. I am currently I am programmer and computer security specialist(ethical hacker), and want to expand and network with people in my industry. My other goal is to lose my VIRGINITY, and most guys who get laid have a network, I just want to have sex to see how it feels.

ANY HAS TIPS ON FAKING TO BE NT OR BUILDING A NETWORK OF FRIENDS ?

PROS OF HAVING A NETWORK AND SOCIAL CIRCLE

More opportunities in finding a job
Getting well known
Higher possibility of getting a lot of girls
Can learn more from others

CONS OF HAVING NETWORK AND SOCIAL CIRCLE
Waste a lot time hanging out with people
Less day dreaming time
Less time to self
To much popularity

I think you have nailed it in terms of positives and negatives but remember it is about the quality of friends over the quantity, having friends you can't trust is never healthy so you need to be cautious of who you are befriending. Also people on the spectrum tend to have a more naive and gullible nature which makes us more prone or vulnerable to certain people so try to stay aware that not everyone has genuine intentions.

Finding the right friends.
http://www-users.cs.york.ac.uk/~alistai ... nding.html

Thank you this is a huge help